I'm different from most of the men you know.

I am a confident tall outwardly masculine male who understands his place in a committed long-term relationship/marriage is not in charge. My destiny is to become a dutiful and supportive husband, partner and lover to one confident, secure and unapologetically strong woman with a preference for a female-focused and directed relationship dynamic where her authority as the leading partner is mutually established and agreed upon. I am sincere in my pursuit and though love living in Connecticut would consider relocation for the right woman.

I identify as an anti-patriarchal, pro-feminist male with a decidedly different outlook on gender roles; I make no apologies for who I am or what I seek. I'm not interested in convincing nor converting any woman to my line of thinking; either accept and embrace this ideology or reject it. The choice is always yours.

I have always preferred the company of smart strong women and long stood apart from the group-think often attributed to men in their forties and beyond. Ideally you are you a confident woman tired of the machismo from men who want to mold you to meet their needs and expectations while making endless demands on your time, energy and good nature. I do not take women for granted nor share the predictable patriarchal ideals 'privileged' men take as birthright.

I've long been an enthusiastic advocate 'female led relationships' (FLR) and the bountiful benefits they offer confident couples who pursue them. Some women are natural relationship leaders while some men - like myself - best suited as followers. When the two join forces you've got one potent team that works harmoniously.

My tastes and ideas border on the eclectic; my interests varied and diverse. I am more urban than suburban in my outlook with an interest in cities, art, architecture, films, foreign travel, current events, independent bookstores, intriguing cafes and non-chain restaurants. I have always had interests beyond the typical and traditional; including an appreciation for independent thinkers and doers - those women with their own ideas, beliefs and style. If any of this appeals to you, please say 'hello.'

Whether you share my outlook on relationships is completely up to you. I remain a confident, secure, proud and unapologetic submissive male who appreciates and values female leadership in society, government, business, home and bedroom.

Please respond if most of the following applies to you.

- You desire a self-identified submissive male as a primary partner who is aware, confident, masculine, obedient and a pleaser.

- You are a secure, confident strong woman who insists on being the leading partner in your relationship with a man.

- You insist on a more matriarchal marriage/relationship dynamic and reject patriarchal attitudes, assumptions and conduct.

- You have some interest in basic F/m protocols and want to pursue a long term relationship with a man who welcomes your insights, leadership and control - in and out of the bedroom.

- You're progressive in your ideas, beliefs and attitudes; a feminist with an interest in non-traditional gender role dynamics.

- You have a healthy if not expansive sex drive.

- If you're healthy/health-conscious with a commitment to fitness, strength and beauty. You always wants to feel and look your best.

- If you do not have an STD

- If you do not smoke or use drugs.

I'm more than willing to clarify anything I've written or answer any questions you may have - even if you do not think I'm the right choice for you. My profile says a lot about who I am, how I think and the type of woman I'm looking for; where this goes from here is entirely up to you.