i have a strong will and therefore need someone who can control me not break me. A good D/s relationship is built on communication and trust which is what i am used to and seek. Not looking for quicky play sessions or one night stands but a long term relationship with someone who has a good sense of humour and quick wit as laughter is very important to me. i am a BBW so if that turns you off then thats ok pass on by, Happy to chat as this provides the first insight to see if we get can get on, its only at a real meet can we see if the chemistry is right. Please no marrieds or long term partners or smokers, or am i being too picky? Thought about it and no i'm not