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I have started to involve myself in the scene a far more now a days, I have had partners whom I've submitted for. However I have yet to experience anything with someone who I could call a dom/me thus far. I wish to, ideally - but my luck hasn't won out yet. I'm extremely picky when it comes to partners, for me scenes result in sex, in some form or another. I wish to be with partners who I can trust and have some form of a relationship with, be it friend or lover or other.
I've been interested and aware of the scene for a very long time.
I'm a fairly self aware person, but I have a hard time connecting or feeling safe with people. I'm aware of how a sub should be treated, and how I myself would like to be treated. That said I still would love to meet people and to be taught and have things explained to me. what I personally would like to get out of this lifestyle is people whom I can trust, are safe and are aware. I, myself do not believe I could invest myself into a 24/7 lifestyle, I do not want to be a slave, and I do not wish for it to be something that interweaves throughout my day to day life - doesn't take over my life.
I'm a fairly honest person, open and respectful - I just ask the same in return.
What I've found to enjoy, thus far:
*slapping
*spanking
*dirty talk
*chocking
*hair pulling
*corsets
*dressing up
*pushing buttons
*bitting
*scratching
really interested in learning about bondage and rope play
About me IRL
Let's get the most controversial stuff out of the way first,
1) I'm a feminist
2) I identify as Queer (however that does not mean I identify as a lesbian, or hetrosexual)
3) I believe in body positivity
4) Sexuality is fluid (at least to me)
5) I like to debate/discuss
6) I'm proud of my French Acadian background
7) monogamy isn't the only choice for me
8) I play world of warcraft
I'm currently in school doing a major in Drawing and Painting. I'm vegetarian, but pretty open minded about it. I'm quite the cat person, but I don't hate on dogs. Most people underestimate me; be it that I possibly down play myself in public or not - I'm seen as I quote "sunshine and lollipops". However I'm not naive, or stupid, I may be missing a filter on what is deemed appropriate conversation but that doesn't make me stupid. Intelligence, the ability to use your brain, is above all the most attractive quality a person has and the lack there of can be an easy turn off for me.
I'm quite bit nerdy, I like watching star trek, and doctor who, sherlock, star gate, with a load of food network and discovery channel thrown in there. General rule of thumb is that if it interests me, I can easily talk about it for hours.
I walk just about every where, love going to concerts and loathe people who order venti-unsweetened-soy-extra hot-no foam-green tea lattes.
I drink crap beer with friends, have an affinity for cats, geek out over most things, I don't do clubs, eat too much Kraft Dinner, I'm artsy(?), I'm an overt tactile person, who can take a joke, loves board games and card games, and has a tendency to get caught in weird situation. Anything else you can ask.
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