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I have come to realize that many of us out here are trying to hard to force the issue; try to put a suare peg into a round hole, rather than holding out for what it is that we really want. This is probably true of submissive women who put up with assholes in hopes that he will change into what they dream of. Probably also true for guys who findthe only way to get what they want is to pay for it, thereby enabling them to write a script.
I do not judge these situations. In fact, I resent those out here who see fit to judge others on this site. What do you care if a guy is married and seeking to play? Isn't this the right site for that? This isn't Christian Mingle! If it is not for you, just say so and move on!
What I don't like are the shady liars. The FinDommes who don't say so until 5 messages are exchanged. The married guys who do not come right out and say so. The cdouples where the guy is the only one who really exists and is trying to get a bisexual partner, again wiothout saying so up front.
Here is what I commit to. I won't judge you. I'd prefer you not judge me. I'll exchange thoughts, ideas and preferences in the scene and listen to yours. I'll answer questions truthfully. If I say I am going to do something, then I will do it. I will be as honest as I can.
Hopefully thjis leads to a few fun friends with a few cool people and I'll take it from there...... |
