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I am very affectionate and attentive lover. I am open minded, sexually adventurous, and will pretty much try anything once. I can enjoy kinky things just because they are kinky or taboo. I am also turned on by any activity that I know pleases or excites my partner. I'm mostly straight (I have been with guys before) and would do it again with the right person(s).

I absolutely love women though. I love everything about them. Even more so if they are curvy. I couldn't tell you why I love them so, I just do. There isn't one thing about them, but everything. They are just so incredibly beautiful and sexy.

If I had to pick a role I would say I am a switch, but I hesitate to just say that as I have no “real” experience. I am currently looking to explore my submissive side. Honestly I think I make a much better bottom than top and so it is time to find out for sure. I have dabbled with kink before, but nothing serious.

I discovered rather late in life the joys of wearing woman’s panties and stockings. Don't even get me started on high heels or lingerie. I don't know why I like it, only that I do. It must have something to do with how sexy I find a woman to be and when I wear woman's things it make me feel sexy too. Honestly though, when I catch myself in the mirror I usually look quite ridiculous. So I suppose I could use a little help with that.

My interests are far more varied than cross dressing. Granted, I need to explore that and many of the things that usually go along with it, but I would also be just as happy in a scene with some queening, pegging and no cross dressing (might as well throw in some bondage and humiliation while we are at it). I so thoroughly enjoy worshiping pussy and ass with my mouth.

Outside of the bedroom I am pretty much a geek. I work in the computer field, play video games (when I have the time), and firmly believe the original Star Wars trilogy are the best movies ever made. For music I typically listen to House/Techo/Electronica, but pretty much enjoy anything besides country. I'm also a huge fan of college football and you will usually find me watching the game on Saturdays.

As I mentioned before, I am married. I have her permission to play without her and to explore this side of myself as long as it does not interfere with our sex/family life. She totally gets that this will take a commitment on both our parts in order for me to make myself available to submit to another. I would like nothing more than for her to be my Domme, but she is just too submissive herself. Eventually she may be interested/willing in providing some assistance or help at home. I am very blessed with a loving and understanding wife!

== Results from bdsmtest
96% Rope Bunny
96% Degradee
96% Experimentalist
95% Submissive
95% Non-monogamist
92% Degrader
87% Sadist
87% Switch
86% Masochist
86% Slave
83% Rigger
82% Exhibitionist
77% Voyeur
65% Girl/Boy
63% Master/Mistress
62% Brat Tamer
62% Owner
61% Dominant
61% Brat
57% Primal (Prey)
51% Daddy/Mommy
48% Primal (Hunter)
48% Ageplayer
44% Pet
18% Vanilla
See my results

My Ideal Person Anyone who shares the same interests as I do. I would prefer someone local but am not opposed to trying to do this online. I am also looking for friends and mentors. I would love to make friends with any CD/TS/TV to help me learn how to be more gurly and to do gurly stuff with. Send me a friend request or drop me a line. Let me know a little bit about you and what kind of relationship you are looking for. Tell me a fantasy if you like. I don't usually reply to 1 liners, but any thoughtful message will be replied to.