Casual play is not my thing, so it's no surprise I'm not into casual sex either. No judgement - I've got several t-shirts, I just prefer the babydoll! I have been trained to high expectations; I crave to make my Dom smile with my discipline and obedience. I love how it can quiet my mind. That pleasure needs to be earned by the Dom though and I can be a challenge. There's a time and place and I can have a smart mouth, a fiery demeanour, can be an outrageous flirt or in an instant become quite shy. When it counts, I know where the line is. With the right connection a Dom can enjoy the variety in and out of vanilla settings. You will want to get to know me, I'll take up your focus so you won't have time for others. Being sapiosexual, you will hypnotise me by getting into my head and take control at the source. Caveman tactics do not impress me. Although holding me at the throat whilst you weave your magic makes me wet. I will want to meet once a positive connection has been established. I live in reality and have no desire to living a fantasy dream. My feelings, and orgasms, are very real, and I need a 'real-life' Dom to control me physically and mentally. Distance therefore needs to be realistic for regular dates. Domination is not all about sexy outfits and elaborate toys; a look, a tone or a firm grip can be more effective in connecting with me with the right man.. but then again, I must admit I do love getting appropriately dressed for the bedroom... Looking for a kind, strong-minded, experienced and intellectually deep dominant man to compliment me in a D/s context towards a private environment where I can explore my submissive training. I'm tall (5'10), in proportion curvy (UK16), long blonde hair, blue eyes, with loads of personality! The pics shown are of me and taken recently, I would appreciate to see who I'm talking to. Am happy to exchange 'normal' headshots. I always reply to polite, considered emails. But if you have not matched and shown you have not read and understood my profile, I am unlikely to reply. Life is too short for time wasters, dreamers and rude people.