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mydeardisdain

Sassy, strong-willed, passionate, depraved... I’m here looking for a relationship. I seek a longterm primary, D/s partnership -someone worthy of a leadership role in my life. The right person is smart, interesting, thoughtful, articulate, experienced. He likes words. He loves strong-willed, sassy, clever women. Women who yield to no one else but him.

This person will believe that dominance is as much about worship as submission is. This person will believe in mutual dedication, communication, trust, and honesty, regardless of D/s role. He will understand that showing vulnerability to his sub is a sign of his strength. This person knows a D/s relationship takes time and trust, and will treat me like an equal, negotiate like an equal, and never condescend to me prior to that relationship having been built.

I do not respond to anyone over 36. Sorry :( Trying my hardest to date closer to my age.

As far as the fun stuff, I seem to be most compatible with Daddy-Dom types who enjoy humiliation and degradation.


I've been around the block in the kink scene over the past few years. I've met a lot of people, attended a lot of events, learned from a lot of great teachers, and had two serious, longterm D/s relationships. I started off as a sub, evolved into a switch, and now… now, the journey continues. But please don't mistake me for a newcomer.

After over a year with no D/s in my life, I'm looking for a Dom. The process of finding the right person will be slow and steady, but I think I'm finally up for the challenge.

Outside of kink, I live for music, books, and discussions on various topics, especially philosophy and social justice. I have many hobbies (music, art, food, shows, MOOCs, writing, reading, etc).