I spent many years in Europe which I truly loved. Most of my time was spent in Germany and Italy but I traveled all over. And I am looking forward to going back. My Daughter was born in Germany and, sometime in the near future, I look forward to bringing her back there to show her where she was born.

Hmm... what else? I love a good wine and I love to share a bottle with someone special. Along with an evening of good conversation and a little banter thrown in is OK too. I do not smoke with the exception of an occasional cigar maybe 3 or 4 a month. With that too I enjoy quality as opposed to quality. But I am a considerate smoker and person in general and if the smoke bothers you we will work around it for sure.

I do like some of the finer things in life but jeans and a T-shirt are OK also. I enjoy the theater - especially a trip to NY for a romantic week to celebrate a special occasion. I like the opera and at times have been to the opening night at the MET and rubbed elbows with the elite, while the next day found me in Yankee stadium watching my Red Sox play the Yankees drinking a beer and having a hot-dog. NY and Boston are my two favorite cities in the states and of course many in Europe.

As for the lifestyle, I am on a quest to find that one particular partner that is as perfect a fit as possible. I have over 10 years experience as a RT DOM some before my marriage and some after. I was married for 10 years been apart for 4 now (2 separated and 2 divorced). When my marriage was over (and we were separated) I returned to the lifestyle. I think I pretty much have developed my own style as a DOM and Master - a blend of the two. I have had had two long term subs and many "tryouts or attempts" for a lack of better terminology.

One of my long term subs called me the "Gentleman DOM." I do cherish the gift of submission and, to me, it truly is the ultimate gift. I do open doors and hold chairs and truly treat my sub/slave like a queen upon a pedestal which she has chosen and earned the right to be upon. NEVER mistake my kindness, good manners and passion for romance as weakness - it will be a grave mistake. And don't get me wrong I am firm, demanding and will challenge you constantly physically and even more so mentally. I do have the ability to freeze you with a look especially in public . . . you will learn me and my ways as I will you and yours . . .

I have also been told that I "maintain my dominance even at my sweetest moments" lol I think the hardest part of all this is talking about myself like this I am more of an action person as opposed to someone who goes on and on about himself.

I have been, at times, very involved in the BDSM community - organizing munches and parties, etc. but I have gotten away from that lately. However, I still enjoy going to a munch, party or even to a fetish club - but not as an every weekend thing.

I think this is why I have started this quest to find a person a sub/slave that can blend everything I seek in the vanilla world and in the lifestyle into one relationship.

A good sense of humor is important to me I love to laugh and have a good time.

I am looking for someone that can be challenging at times... I do not only like a challenge but really need that in a sub/slave but trust me I will ALWAYS rise to the occasion. What hasn't worked for me in the past is a sub/slave that is totally flaccid and without a little spunk and fire.

I mentioned I worked as a Trauma Nurse I do not, at this time, work directly for a hospital. I work for a staffing company and contract positions with hospitals - Florida is my home base but I have traveled to a number of places to work in the past including Reno and Hawaii. Right now I am in Port Saint Lucie for at least 6 months. But if I found the right one I would consider settling down if the traveling was an obstacle to developing a relationship.

My daughter is in FL and she turned 12 in Aug so I have to stay fairly close until she is off to college. We are very close and spend every other weekend with her. no matter where I am I make sure we have our time together but she is getting to the age where dad takes a back seat to friends and plans at times lol.

I do not think it is necessary to go into likes and dislike and specifics of the lifestyle at this time. I feel, as with any relationship, it will be a progression of getting to know one another and our specific desires.

Okay well it is your turn give me an image of what you are all about. please contact me at mp2002d at aol

I will be waiting to hear from you