Life is far too short to spend it sitting on the sidelines!
Profiles generally don't capture the full spectrum of relationship or play dynamics.
Each submissive is uniquely different; therefore, the approach, the training, and the relationship possibilities vary per individual.
Am I always a Mommy figure? Is He always a Daddy figure? Of course not! Far from it!
It is, quite simply, one particular dynamic among many. We are as diverse as Our imagination, needs, and desires dictate.
Ideally, We are looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive. Short-term is fine for play. However, training is dramatically more effective over the long term, when a strong bond of trust has been established.
Whenever one is searching, look beyond the obviously stated.
Distance is the first, and really only, hurdle. Beyond that, write and get to know a prospective Dom or Domme. After all, reading the ingredients of a recipe will not tell you how the finished product will look or taste; the ingredients will give a hint, nothing more.
The Dominant is as flexible as He needs to be to get what He wants, but He is definitely in charge, totally Dominant from birth, and has developed the necessary skills to take a submissive to sub space and far beyond. He can be as strict or as loving as He sees fit in order to provide the proper learning or serving environment a submissive needs to grow and thrive.
I serve Him alone. I enjoy Topping a submissive, or, at His pleasure, I delight in serving alongside a submissive. The possibilities are, indeed, endless. I am a multiple, with 4 distinct personalities. More than that, you will have to ask...some things should be left to mystery and discovery. This variety does, however, stretch the limits of possible interactions.
Many people come to collar me, or other such sites, looking to meet and marry Mr. Right Dom. That's well and good. But, sitting there waiting, endlessly hoping, seems such a waste of potential energy. The best way to find the right D/s fit is to actually meet people, form friendships, and experience various styles and techniques. You just might discover a treasure trove of learning experiences you never realized were available to you.
