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I just wanted to update this seeing as it has been quite a bit since I first joined up here. As some of you may or may not know, my username is a reference to the AB/DL or Adult Baby lifestyle. One where the wearing of diapers or simply acting younger is a means for a person to express their inner selves. It could also be considered an offshoot of age play. What I do, is work as an online caretaker/mommy for those in that lifestyle in that I fill the role of a parent and encourage the expression of that dormant personality. Since I'm online, that means I won't be taking in any real life babies so don't bother asking about anything to do with offline life.
However, my opinions on how to go about it isn't necessarily orthodox with other. I don't believe in 2 hour play sessions but a total life restructuring. The new age you are selected for would be the basis of your life. For example, if you were to be reassigned to the life of a 3 year old, you would have a bedtime and naptime of a 3 year old, you would have a bathtime, curfew, privileges, clothing, etc, etc. You would live the life of that age 100% right down to clothes appropriate for that age.
Furthermore, keep in mind that as sex or masturbation wouldn't be acceptable for a young child, it will also be off limits to you. I dislike sexual context in ageplay and never allow it to have a place in what I do.
Also, and I can't believe I have to spell this out, please do not approach me with silly one line messages. This may be a site tuned to a specific audience, but that doesn't make me any less of a person who will demand tact. A big pet peeve of mine is proper, or at least a legitimate effort at good grammer. I despite seeing messages with 'u', or similar idiotic spelled shortcuts. If you can't find the time to type the words out, I don't have the time to consider you.
I'm going to judge you on your first message. I place stock on first impressions after all and I get plenty of messages per day. If you want a response, make yours stand out and intrigue me. Please do not just call me mommy right off...No one messaging me has met me, call me Kara, hell speak to me like an equal, just stop calling me mommy right off. I wouldn't expect you to call random people on the street that, so don't call a stranger on the web that. As such, introduce yourself properly and let me get to know you, don't just expect to be given personal information or be named as a little. Tell me WHY you're messaging me, what made you interested, why you think we should talk. If you just use a cliche like being new on the site, I'm most likely either not going to respond or I'm going to send a snarky response if I've had a bad day and you chose the wrong time to send a message. It's even less likely I'll respond if your message has no depth to it AND your profile is bare or akin to bare. In short, if you say something in a message to me that you wouldn't say in front of your own boss, or if it gives me no reason to see you as worth a response, then you should avoid sending it.
That all being said, I know such a dynamic shift in lifestyle is not for everyone and even fewer on a long term basis, but if I can find one person willing to invest the time and energy and follow their new mother's rules, it will be worth the 49 who do not pursue it. Until then however boys and girls, I can't wait to see you all.
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Okay people please...It's not that big of a pet peeve and even when only occasionally I don't mind too much, but please do not just call me mommy right off...No one messaging me has met me, call me Kara, Miss, hell speak to me like an equal, just stop calling me mommy right off. I wouldn't expect you to call random people on the street that, so don't call a stranger on the web that.
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Okay people, let me put this as nicely as I can since really, it's only been some stupid boys over and over again...Do NOT just try to add me as a friend or send chat requests. Friends are people I know and trust, not just random people, and I only chat with people I at least have some background with or some basis for talking with. I am NEVER going to accept these random requests and I'm honestly more likely to just block you so stop wasting your time and mine.
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