I am an emotionally and financially secure woman. I am raising my children in a lovely home in a lovely town. I don't need a man to take care of me, I am accomplishing that all by myself.

I am single and interested in a relationship. I love all the 'vanilla' things.. holding hands at the mall, going to the movies, making a great meal with the music blaring in the background, hitting the beach, blah blah blah...

But there are the 'chocolate' things too. The excitement in the bedroom. The need to give up all control to that special someone. For me, nothing makes me feel more free than to be in strict bondage and to be totally controlled.

I am interested in a relationship; and in the meantime would not mind being submissive to a top couple. However, that couple MUST be secure in who they are as individuals as well as where they are in their relationship, as I will not be part of anyone else's "drama". While I consider myself "straight", being topped by a woman in a 'couple situation' is quite a turn-on for me. I am NOT interested in dating or playing with a married man.

I am not interested in being a slave, can not do 24/7... I am not interested in being anyone's doormat. Please be respectful of me as a person first, a submissive second...

I will be happy to share a picture with you.. just won't put one on this site for privacy reasons. I'm kinda cute tho, so no worries....<grin>

Having these desires and needs make it difficult to date in a vanilla world.. and difficult to date in a bdsm world. I am looking for that perfect blend.... Let me know if you are 'it'...