Collarspace.com

I am a geeky, friendly, sharp-tongued masochist with submissive leanings. I'm a cis, bi (or pan - gender's not an issue, but bi is what most people know), poly masochist, married to the love of my life. Tolerance for our dynamic, polyness and sexuality, is a must. We practice honest, ethical non-monogamy, and expect our partners and playmates to do the same. I like my whips and chains with a healthy dose of not-taking-myself-too-seriously. I love corsets, collars and other trappings of femininity. I am a sucker for 'high femmes', androgynes and most styles that play on gender as performance. I enjoy floggers, whips and cats, and I need my bruises. I take my safety seriously, and don't play with anyone who won't. I'm picky with my partners, so please don't take it personally if I won't play with you. It's not you, it's me. That said, I am known to be eager to try new things... I'm active in my local scene and can usually be found at a munch. I try to attend events and parties where I can, but I'm unlikely to play without knowing someone well, either personally or by reputation.