I am your typical relaxed guy, until things start to mesh. Then I enjoy taking the dominant role. I get off on dressing in leather and enjoying a good cigar, a drink and good company. If need and called for I can be forceful and controlling. Doesn't mean I'm going to haul you down to my dungeon. Simply that I am comfortable with myself and I know what I want and am willing to take it. I get off on role playing, from daddy to Master. Both of which take as much respect for the other, I just know what is best for them. I am kinky and have been known to be sadistic at times. Not in a cruel way or crude way, but in a way that pumps your endorphins and gives you the natural high. Life is too short to accept the mundane and boring. It is more about grabbing it by the hair and dragging it down to where it belongs. I am imaginative, obervant, always watching to see what makes the other click, the role that they know they want, even if they don't know to reach into the area of their personality. The intensity that I bring to bear is matched with equal amount of bring them back out of it safely. It is about balance, ying & yang, scare the shit out of them, all parties enjoy it and then bring them back down safely. This is how the trust is developed. But you must be willing to walk to the edge and trust that I will catch you. You will enjoy it, even if you are scared, but excited.

I am straight although bi-curious looking to find someone who is not only in it for the sex but the thrill of the kinky side of things. Sex, and naked go only so far, I'm looking for someone who knows or wants to learn the excitement of domination/submission. It is 80% mental, 20% physical. The fear, the smells, the rough/gruff and domineering/cruel handling. Not knowing what is going to happen and fearing and loving it at the same time. We all have fantasies about but most are just scared to step to the edge and make the plunge. Well I am looking for those that want to make the plunge, someone who knows it might be hard and will be both mentally and physically challenging. Bruises if made will fade, but the endorphin rush will last a lifetime.....seeking the natural high of submitting oneself is special.

The choice of stepping over the edge is yours, after that I will take it from there.....