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How to sum up one’s life in a block on the Internet?
I am a attractive, and creative Dom, with a vanilla outside. I have no interest in becoming public since I have two young kids half the week.
Behind closed doors it is a different thing though.
I was married for over 14 years, it was a semi D/s relationship, but the last two years of it were dead, then we finally split a year ago March. Now free I am feeling the dark side calling to me. I have a strong will power and can adjust my style to the capability of my sub/slave. I prefer creative play, using games, bondage, mind fucks, toys to work up my slave till she is at the brink.
I will respect hard limits ( I have a few too), but within those limits is the play zone. Trust is an important factor for both Top and Bottom and with out it things can go bad.
I would prefer to play close to home, I can host during the week to some extent. I don't have any want to do cyber. I am hands on, but being able to talk with a sub about what might or will happen to her, can be as exciting for me as doing it sometimes.
By day I am a vanilla engineer and father of two boys who are my world, but at night I like to play. I am going through a lot of transitions right now due to separation. Some vanilla activities I enjoy: Sailing, building devices, graphic design blah blah blah.
I would like to meet a girl who by day is smart, witty and fun to be with, but at night she is submissive with a dark kinky side. I am not really into heavy stuff such as needles, minors, animals, scat or blood in anyway. Check out my fetishes for what I do like. :)
Toss me a note if you are in the KW area and are looking to chat, I am a pretty open book all you have to do is ask.
I will update this when I sort through all the screaming voices in my head.

According to FL, but seriously 4% vanilla wtf? Experimental 89% Dominant 86% Sadist 79% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 57% Switch 50% Bondage 36% Degradation Lover 21% Submissive 21% Masochist 11% Vanilla 4%