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What am I looking for? ? ? You need to: ? You should be that special woman / sub / slave, ? you need to be able to hold a conversation and have opinions ? be submissive at all times, ? be a lady in public when vanilla, ? be able to wear a normal dress in public, ? carry yourself with dignity and honor, ? be a slut on demand and always a slut when we are alone, ? be willing to have three holes used most days, swallow will be required, ? love to have sex, ? enjoy being touched anywhere at anytime in anyplace, ? be naked at home (usually) and/or wear the clothes I choose, ? be able to dress like a slut when we go to non vanilla events, ?? take a beating, flogging, whipping, ? enjoy nipple clamps, ? like pain, ? love being tied and used, ? be willing to snuggle, ? be wanting to grow old together, ? be ready for anything, ? be able to follow orders, ? eventually know what I want without being told, ? someone who is spiritual (vague term), ? someone who has an inner beauty, ? someone who I would not be embarrassed to have meet my mom meet, ? being really horny would help, ? enjoy receiving oral sex as much as I enjoy giving you oral, ? you need to be a 'safe' person, ? over the age of 25, you need to be a woman not a girl, ? should think of yourself as a slut and a whore, but I will not call you that, ? you must love and enjoy sex, ? You may be older then I am, ? ? ? You do not need to: ? Wear lots of makeup, ? be barbie doll, ? be of any specific race, ? be of any special size, ? be a 'knockout', ? be a needy whiney complaining wench, ? be a smoker, ? ? ? I am ? thought of as nice by others, ? employed as a professional, somewhat sadistic, ? a dominant, ? cherishing of my toys, ? giving and loving, ? conservative in politics, ? liberal in many social policy, ? going to have any more kids, ? concerned about your happiness and joy, ? a person you would not be embarrassed to have your mom meet, ? a 'safe' person - this does not mean a safety freak or not doing dangerous things, ? not going to call you a whore or slut all the time, and never in public (except maybe in public play situations), ? wanting to grow old with you (LTR), ? wanting to cherish you, ? wanting someone to love, ? loyal, ? honorable, ? somewhat old fashioned, ? I still hold open doors and you will never open a car door again if I am with you, ? fond of quiet nights, ? ? ? I am NOT: ? psychotic, ? evil, ? wanting a punching bag, ? wanting to share you, ? a former convict, ? a smoker, ? a drinker, ? a drug user, ? a control freak, ? domineering, ? self obsessed loser, ? into minors... I like women not girls, ? into bestiality, ? living with my mom or other relative, ? into scat, ? unable to hold a job, ? going to shit on you literally or metaphorically. ? ? ? I know what I am looking for may not exist or next to impossible to find. You will be a rare find and I would love to get to know you. My standards are high and I will not just f*ck or whip someone for the sake of f*cking or whipping them. ? ? I hope you are out there somewhere. ? ? I am not wanting a plain relationship, I have been there, done that. ?
9/14/2006 8:50:24 AM
I just finished dating a woman. This sub thought I would make a great Daddy Dom. When I reflect on this I think she may be correct. Of course I thought that always involved age. But alas it does not. From what I have seen a Daddy Dom may be a good definition for me.
1/31/2006 5:09:43 AM
One more thing or two. I am not a control freak, almost everything on the positive list is open for discussion, your attitude is much more important then say, wearing high heels or public play, the negative list is pretty hard list (no smoking, no kids, no scat, no bestiality), so do not hesitate about contacting me. Also I am not to sure how much into BDSM events I am into. That is in there for future desires.
1/30/2006 9:14:09 PM
One thing to clarify... you will NOT (repeat NOT) be sexually serving others, ever. If we go forward you will be mine and I will not share you sexually with anyone else. Likewise, I will not be with anyone else. I am d/d free.