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My profile, as I am, is a work in progress

What I do know about me, is that celibacy is more interesting than random sex, and sex to me is like booze to an alcoholic, so just the same, I'm not looking for "exploring, random play"...

Please do try to keep this in mind...  It'd be considered a sign of respect for my choices, and my values.  Sex without love and commitment is for me, a very unhealthy choice. But I wish you the best of luck in your endeavours :)

but I do enjoy intellectual discourse on a variety of topics.

I'm pretty diverse  in nature, have lived a lot of different ways in my lifetime, relatively short that it is, so my tastes are flexible, my interests are. My friends call me "cosmopolitan".. I tend to think I'm a tad flightier than I'd like to be.

I'm a quality engineer by trade and training, have been in management for a few years, and hate it... taking some time now to redefine my life and figure out what really is right for me.

Submissive is my nature, but life has meant fighting that nature for survival.. which, is exhausting, and in a lot of ways, not healthy, karmically or otherwise.

I am loving this opportunity, scary, but I'm involved pretty actively in my church, taking improv classes, playing volleyball, and socializing with people.

A new life in a new city.. it's fun to explore, be lost about half the time.

In y more quiet times I read a lot, studying for my professional engineering designation, and looking for a new job, kinda.. still trying to figure out what my new career path ought to be.

It's a lot, but never dull :)
lookingforMOM
 
 Age: 47
 St. Charles, Missouri