My life is not a dirty little secret, nor will I be yours.
I say that because I have found so many people here are married or they are in serious relationships. And they are looking for a little something outside of their vanilla life. I won't say that is wrong...but its just not for me. I don't like the feeling of being the dirty little secret that you have to hide from your significant other. I do hope you understand. Oh so you figured out that I am a SAM....Well isn't that awesome. Yep, that's me...a complete a total SAM. So before you go to send me some rude message about how I need to learn my place and stop being a brat, know the definition of a SAM. Okay, just so you all know, I don't post my limits here for the simple reason that I have found so many fakes on this site. I am not a kinkster, so please don't address me for just reasons of getting your rocks off. Although I must admit, I haven't met a flogger that I didn't fall in love with. I am a submissive completely when someone possesses a stronger dominance than I do and is confident enough to show me his dominance. I believe that SSC is the basis for BDSM, but I lean more towards the RACK side. (with the right person of course) I am seeking the Daddy Dom out of all others, for the simple fact of needing to be cherished and cared for by another. I am not seeking pedophilia in any way shape or form. So please don't confuse the 2. I am employed and can provide for myself, so please know that I am not seeking any monetary support either. When I say 'support' it means supporting my mind, my thoughts, and my submission. I am not a weakling and become very dominate and assertive when people confuse my submission as a weakness. I am so tired of hearing from so called Doms that subs are suppose to be conformed to this way of what society says they look like. Subs are not these tiny timid little girls any more than Doms are these massive sized creatures that always administers obscene amounts of pain. We all come in all shapes and sizes. With that being said, if you are looking for a skinny girl, then please don't stop here. Now if you have made it this far and would like to get know me then please send me a message. I don't PM here because its too much on my computer. Look forward to hearing from you. And if you have made it this far and wonder why there is no picture of me on my profile....well it seems that there are many of us out here that find our jobs important enough to not post pictures of ourselves on a site such as this. But after talking to you and seeing if there could be a connection, I have no problem sharing a pic with you.
11/19/2012 1:08:31 AM
So it seems that I have read a large number of profiles that belong to the Dominant men here on CM. While reading these profile, I have found that an obscene amount of you all state that the submissive women here are less than honest. Or that they aren't real. Or even that they waste your time with countless emails. But here is what I have found out in my search....most of the Doms here are here looking for some bedroom action. They tend to tell a sub what we want to hear to get their way. We meet....things look good....we attempt to move forward.....I catch him in a lie. I'm sorry, I always believed that in any relationship you should have trust. If I cant trust you then I don't need you.
11/17/2012 5:21:35 PM
Let me be strong enough to bend and not break.
Let me be loving enough to give my all.
Let me surrender in all that I am and all that I do.
