boring stuff first - i am married (and she doesn't) thus, i'm not looking for any real time relationship, just a little fun.

an ex-girlfriend was very submissive, and got me very interested in both domination and submission, although i always felt more comfortable being bossed around.

now i find myself married (and faithful) but still yearning for the old days. all of which means any contact would have to be via messenger, email or somehow online. i'm not interested in a meetup (however tempting) and i neither want to pay or be paid for the experience.

so that's that out of the way.

my interests are roughly as follows...

crossdressing (i love to be sissisfied)
nylons/stockings and tights/pantyhose. (for either partner)
spanking. i have used whips before but i prefer to feel the heat on my hand.
blindfolds.
very high heels.
slow "psychological" torture (eg gentle, discrete masturbation of a partner in a public place - buses are particularly fertile hunting ground for this pastime)
anal worship.
and, though i've never done it (she drew the line), i've a certain fascination with watersports.

i'm not gay, although i have had a number of male (and multiple) partners and therefore have no qualms about communications from any guys, but i do prefer ladies.

i'm not a 24/7 CD, and neither am i a desciple of bondage. i'd simply like to hear from anyone who fancies chatting/emailing me to share views, ideas, and hopefully fantasies.

i will upload a pic shortly (when i get myself organised) but for now i'll look forward to hearing from you, hopefully.

thanks. paul