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I am relatively new to the scene although I've always tried to include aspects of BDSM in my "vanilla" relationships. I'm here to meet people that I can discuss all this wonderful stuff with as I'm still pretty much in the closet about it with most of my friends and all of my family. I'm sure that will change eventually as that's why I'm here! I'm also here to meet the love of my life whomever she is! I know that any relationship I have will have aspects of BDSM involved. How much and what levels I really don't know. I'm still searching and I'm still healing on some levels from past relationships. I'd classify myself as a switch as I've enjoyed both sides of the coin so to speak and i'm open to meeting people of all persuasions. This is also avery small part of my life. I live and work in Manhattan. I play music, write and consider myself an artistic type. I love travel, good food and good wine. I read a a lot and go to concerts a lot. I was born in Ireland but have lived in NYC for 15 years now. Spring and Autumn are my favourite seasons... If you like what you've read..then get in touch. Lets explore this wonderful lifestyle together!