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| .....First and foremost, we are an educated professional couple seeking FEMALES ONLY for either a submissive female or a poly household situation.
I have been a practicing Dom for the past 15 years-Since my freshman year in college. I believe moreso in the psychological aspect of the BDSM lifestyle, which is why I've kept to it. I've mentored couples, and I'm far from a typical "Order Barker," meaning that I don't expect to meet a person, wave a magic wand, and say: "Abbra-Caddabra-SUBMIT!" Then? 45 minutes later? Who? What were we doing again?
It's through an inherent trust system that one gains the respect of a woman to submit-I'll often joke around that "Submission is the gift of the truly brilliant mind," as most submissives I've encountered tend to be "Type-A Personality" people in their day-to-day lives, seeking an escape-Likewise, I wonder if you, as the reader, agree that most so-called "Doms" tend to be pushovers in reality seeking a power trip. I deal with them all the time-Call me a bit of a bizarre "Kinky Couples Therapist," albeit my other site tended to receive an abundance of "Dear Abbey" style letters.
In my "Vanilla World?" I'm work in a high-pressure sales environment; I attribute my intimacy with the Dom world from being best friends with a lesbian Domme in college-We grew together through four years, and despite her inherent dislike for men, we made our exceptions, learning from each other each step along the way. Ultimately? I lost a best friend due to time and distance, plus her jealous life partner, which left me to my own adventures!
That said, I'm very artsy by nature-I'm a musician, custom luthier, and photographer. I'm not afraid of being a brainiac, and enjoy the same attribute in others.
That said? I'm a lucky man-My submissive is a tall gal, sometimes coming close to six feet tall in heels. She's in-proportion, not too thick, perky b-cups, long blonde hair, a geeky pair of glasses, the alterego of your typical Irish-Catholic suburban mom, (I *do* have to mention that she has a teenage son. "Fatherhood" is relatively recent to me, and it has its challenges, so if it's a "dealbreaker?" We understand!)
She's absolutely wild and unsatiable in the bedroom. A brat and little girl, and the bonus of being a perfect "switch" when the situation permits it. More in tune to lingerie than jeans, and she knows how to move. Open to practically any fetish, there's only one thing we're missing:
Someone else to enjoy them with. Call it a best friend in tune to the lifestyle. Call it a slave-Or? Simply a poly-situation.....!
We want to find a submissive/slave girl who wants to be a part of something-Not just a one-night stand. Someone to learn and grow with, but *not* a drifter seeking a "sugar couple to foot the bills." We're professionals, we'd prefer to keep in the relations of those who are educated, have a career, and a delightfully open mind!
I have my picture posted-And? Despite being health-conscious, WE DO SMOKE. I know it's been an issue in the past, so please? We're not changing, even though we should-If smoking bothers you that much? It's best to pass us by.
If you're looking for the next chapter in your life, with a loving couple who will push you to your limits, yet massage you in our hot tub, support you emotionally, and stimulate your mind? Start writing! Even if we only gain new friends, it's fun to sit back and laugh at the "Vanilla people."
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