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Sexy, sensual, polyamorous, and submissive. Looking for a strong, experienced Dominant. ----------To elaborate a bit more on what I am not looking for. First off, I am *not* looking to relocate. Also, I am not looking for a 247 relationship. I am polyamorous and involved with a couple of different people. If this would be a problem for you, please look elsewhere as we would not be compatible. As for what I am looking for in real life, one of the other folks on here asked me the following question, and I liked the answers that question inspired in me.
What do you look for in a Dom?
Honesty, intelligence, self-assurance, respect, patience, creativity, experience, a willingness to teach and an openness to learning. Those are the first qualities that come to mind. I want someone who is willing to get to know me and let me get to know them. Someone who knows that trust is earned, and that trust is paramount in a submissive being able to give her power and strength over to her Dom. I want a Dom who knows that the largest sex organ is the mind, and who is willing to work with me in the realms of imagination and fantasy as well as those of the physical. I want someone who is comfortable with bondage, floggings, and roleplay. I look for someone who has a strong sex drive, and who wont be put off by my own drive. I look for a Dom who can respect my hard limits, and who is willing to push me on those things that are not hard limits. I look for a Dom who agrees with safe, sane, and consensual and who has no problem with the use of safewords for both the Dom and the sub. I look for a Dom who understands the power and potentials of power exchange, and who is willing to accept my devotion. I look for a Dom who understands the need for negotiation and aftercare. Thats a beginning. If you have other questions, please email me and I will answer them as best as I can. I am open to exchanging emails, and I love to learn from others, even if you are far away or I do not otherwise feel like I would be a compatible match with you.
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Looking forward to going to Cirque du Noc tonight. It has been fun in the past to browse the Bazaar and discover all kind of interesting things from various vendors. Last year one of my partners was a vendor there, but his business is currently in hibernation. Should be a lot more fun to wander around instead of just being a booth bunny. Best thing about last year, aside from the naughty Santas, was talking with all kinds of people about BDSM, what it was, why it interested me, etc.
Looking forward to seeing the various acrobats, and later on going to the Fetish Ball. Very glad that I have a dress that I *think* will get me past the Fashion Police. But I'm bringing an extra $10 just in case. ;) Definitely looking forward to dancing and just in general having a wonderful night surrounded by other kinky people. |
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Experimented with the chatrooms on here a bit. Ran into some difficulty with getting the chat applet to function, then discovered that there appears to be no user manual for the chatroom. Learn as you go and hope that the other folks on there are willing to take pity on the newbie. Fortunately, one of the folks on there did take pity and gave me a few beginning pointers. I've had a couple of invitations to come and chat with folks, but so far that hasn't been working out too well. I'm hopeful that the next time I get invited off for a private chat I can actually do so. *wry smile* I'm usually pretty good at picking up new things on the computer, but that doesn't eliminate the initial learning curve. |
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My goodness, folks, so far I've received quite a welcome on here. I was feeling more than a little discouraged in my search for a Dominant, and came across Collarme through a Google search. I put together a very basic profile, and found the discouragement hitting me even harder when I looked at what to attempt to write in my profile. I threw together a very brief description of myself and an even briefer statement of what I was looking for. I promised myself I'd write something up in more detail when I was feeling better. Hearing from all of you definitely has me feeling better. Especially all the wonderful compliments about my picture. =) Thank you. I'm feeling a lot more positive about my search and the possibilities that I may find on here. |
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