The trust and understanding that comes with putting yourself under the control of another is indescribable, as is putting somebody under yours. I love it, but it is something which must be earned and mutual. I am still learning of course, I always will be.

I have been fascinated with bdsm for as long as I can remember, though for a while I had no name for it save for 'tied up'. I love to make things and come up with creative ways to do things.

Chances are I may be into other fetishes or interests which I have missed or not thought of. Do please to feel free to ask. I am adventurous and love to try new things.

I am educated with degrees in psychology and education. I work in retail upper management.

I am an avid reader, often of older or classic books, with a vivid and fantastic imagination. I am a friendly person with a sarcastic sense of humor. intelligence, I love, and love to be mentally stimulated and challenged, such as with theorizing and debating. For good or bad I am a romantic, something I never desire to vilify.

I have been away from the scene for a while, far too long and I really miss playing...due to "life" I have not been involved. That needs to change. This is a big part of who I am, and I do not wish to neglect that.