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Whenever I write one of these things I usually say too much. This time I'm going to say too little- on purpose. I have a very strong personality, assertive and somewhat dominant. Some people find it ironic or intriguing that I'm a sub, I don't, it's just me.

I don't consider BDSM a lifestyle, nor do I define myself by my sexuality- there are much more interesting things to know about me. Hopefully the same can be said for you.

A good friend wrote this about me:
"How do I begin?  Jonglier is quintessentially real.  Reality oozes from her pores.  She is so real that she doesn't need to be honest, like honesty doesn't exist because there is no other option.  Like asking a fish what it lives in.

Jonglier is forward and confrontive.  Bullshit-free zone extends about 4 feet radius from her.

Jonglier cares.  She cares so much that she has to protect herself from caring.  Her vulnerability there makes me pissed about the world and motivates me to do something so she can be free to care as much as is good for her. 

Jonglier is funny.  Doesn't catch all my humor, or any "all" about me, but she doesn't care.  She treats me the way she thinks I deserve, and she plays, and likes funny.  And she plays and likes serious.  And she plays and just lets herself play.

Jonglier has a great ass.  She knows it and does not abuse her advantage.  She radiates sensuality, including the sex part, but she is just Jonglier, not something trying to be sexy or sensual. 

Jonglier needs a lot of love.  Not any more than the vast majority of people in the world, but somewhere deep she has not accepted what most people accept - that you can live with a lot less love if you give up most of your humanity.  I love that about her because that means she is an ally that can be counted on.

I will arbitrarily stop here."

That sums up a lot.
1/27/2008 10:50:57 PM
I wish I had more time for this...but I think I chose a bad time to sign up. Much to my surprise I'm getting real responses, rather than the creepy icky trolly bits I was expecting.  I'm curious about few, but there are several who deserve responses just for being good guys- and then who knows? I've got a few unstretchable deadlines to meet this week, so please be patient.

You with the beautiful eyes and empty profile...you looked, but didn't write. Why not?
1/26/2008 2:35:10 AM
This is hilarious. "You must be attractive and sexually bereft." Bereft? Come on people, if you're going to try use a word that you think makes you sound smart at least look it up first. Dictionary.com is only a click away! Unless of course you actually want that...in which case...well who am I to judge?