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| Hum where to begin and in am not crazy about talking about myself much when it come to writing it down, but I will give it a try.
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I have been a part of the lifestyle for about 16 year now. Most of which was Swinging and everything to do with it. It taught me a lot about how one-on-one play worked, playing with couples and to the large group sex dynamics working for the common orgasmic goal of good sexual fun. The parties where a lot fun and I made lots of friends. But in the end I walked away from it do to some complications.
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I did learn a lot about setting rules, and rules of engagement, boundaries and good old communication. I found out the hard way a few times that if you step outside of your parameters or someone else?s then everything can go sideways fast. I have learned its better too step forward cautiously and take my time when it comes to others and there dynamics when interacting with each other in the bedroom.
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For me it just SEX and having it be a good time and nothing more. I am not looking for love or nor will I let myself fall in love with a play partner. It?s just good to keep it to a mutual and pleasurable time and it just should stay that way. By not let things get complicated and messy with emotional feelings its better for all involved and it make life much easier. I have been down that road and I will never let it happen again by just keeping my head in the game and my heart out of it and not breaking my own personal rules it all will be fine. Otherwise I will just walk away from the situation.
I would have to say I am more of a Dominate person by nature and know what I want, but my fetish side says otherwise and I desire to be submissive and controlled. I am learning how to make this work and give in, but I do like to be a naughty sub and push the limits as it keeps things interesting. Exploring this new part of me and lifestyle. I am like an open book waiting to be written on as I discover more about myself and what I like. I do have some dark fetishes or fantasies I would like to explore someday, but that?s all in good time as I still have lot to learn.
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I am looking to make more friends so feel free to message me if you like. You can ask me any questions as I am a straight forward, shoot from the hip kind of person and easy going. I like to make comments to people just to get a rise out of them and see where things will lead to in a conversation.
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Just to let everyone know I will never post a pic of myself up on here. Its just not going to happen. I like my privacy, do to my job and I don?t need any complications from my past and any from the present and none from the future. I do have pics to share to the select few people I know, but they are nothing to jump up and down about. I will never send face pics of myself as well nor do I like my picture taken.
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Well that?s all for now.
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