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I have been in the lifestyle for a long time, I got into it at a young age and have grown as a Master over the years. I do like things to be edgier and somewhat extreme so am seeking a sub who is able to be pushed to her farthest reaches and wants to learn.
There are many so called Dominants who do not know the difference between being dominant and being domineering.
A domineering person thinks that it is all about “being in charge” no matter what. Domineering people are often overbearing, loud and tyrannical, yes they exercise control, but it is done in an oppressive way, they are unjust and severe in their treatment of the people around them and their control is often enforced with threats of physical punishment and with no thought for anyone but themselves.
On the other hand, a Dominant person also exercises complete control but it is done in a more subtle way, with influences and thoughts rather than threats and physical punishments.
Dominants care about the people around them, and though they can be authoritarian and powerful, they have the utmost respect for others and a high level of care and consideration.
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