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UPDATE: ?Not looking for more than friends now.. ?always looking, though, for co-conspirators. ?;-)
I'm looking for an attractive bisexual or bi-curious female (who isn't?) in her 30s/40s who likes sports, movies, good cooking, and general fun. Who either has kids already (in the home or otherwise) or doesn't want them; and would be accepting of mine. Who is either a non-smoker or extremely light smoker (as in, only when she drinks in a bar); not a drug user, not dependent on mood-controlling drugs (ADHD, bi-polar, etc); light to moderate drinker (not a drunk, but not a tee-totaller, either).
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One who likes adult pursuits like swing clubs, strip clubs, adult movies, good fun with good healthy people. Doesn't have to be skinny, but not being obese would be a good thing. Likes to be active (run, swim, bike, etc). Is either a person of faith, or at least a person who is accepting of persons of faith, and isn't one who judges the fact that a person of faith might be on this website (and if you're reading this, and you ARE a person who judges like that - save your comments, I'll delete without reading - I don't need your approval for my life).
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Preferably, a lady who is as comfortable getting lap dances at a strip club on Saturday night as she is singing hymns on Sunday. One whose idea of commitment isn't limited to monogamy, but is limited to "informed playtime." As in - if either of us does something with someone else without the other's knowledge, THAT is cheating.. unless we've agreed to the possibility beforehand.
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As for CollarMe-specific details.. a switch like me - too bull-headed to submit 24/7, too lazy to dom 24/7, but who loves all the toys and scenes anyway.. with a long list of interests that excludes children, animals, and scat.. can you say "Yuck. Just. Yuck." but is otherwise pretty wide open.
Pay for Play is a hard limit. ?I understand you have to make a living somehow, but to me, Pay for Play is a codeword for desperate - and I'm not that.
Lastly, if she's got a CDL and would be interested in team-driving a truck, that would be an incredible bonus.
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Speaking of tolerance:
How disappointing to read profiles and journal entries - and find that people who claim to be tolerant, and demand tolerance from others - are absolutely intolerant when it comes to politics or religion:
"I am not Christian, and I am not Republican, and I cannot tolerate being around those who are."
Well thank you for your honesty. I can cross your intolerant ass off my list of people I thought might be fascinating over a cup of coffee.
It takes all kinds - and your politics doesn't make you a bad person in my eyes. But your hypocrisy - that's another matter entirely.
And this goes for all political and religious bents - it just seems that the left most commonly holds to this "intolerant version of tolerance." |
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On the subject of photos:
Maybe I'm just whining - maybe not. But I don't get people who post obvious selfies. What do I mean by "obvious"? You're using a mirror, and I can see the phone or camera you used to take the picture. Or - worse even - you held the phone out at arm's length, but couldn't keep your arm out of the picture.
Don't you have a friend, a tripod, a sturdy table you could use? Doesn't your device of choice have a timer? Mine does.
I know some of us are very private about this stuff, but if you can't even flag down a stranger at the mall to take a quick vanilla shot, well, you're awfully shy.
This especially holds true for the nineteen-year-old so-called "Goddess" types who want exclusive access to your wallet. Sorry, sweetheart, but if you don't have one pay-piggy you can convince to take a good picture of you, you're just not very "Goddessy", you know?
/rant off.
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Q: Why would a 50-year-old Dom even think that a 25-year-old female would be interested in someone as old as him?
I'm glad you asked. Pushing past the probability that your question is rhetorical and you don't care what the answer is, here goes (in no particular order).
1) Why not? You're entitled to your preference, am I not entitled to mine?
2) It makes me feel young. Knowing I can turn on a nubile college-age girl is a great boost to my ego, and confirmation of my virility.
3) I know stuff. I've got 30+ years of life experience that I'm willing, even eager to share. I'll share it with you, and maybe you'll get something you can use that boys your age just don't have.
4) You know stuff. You may be willing to play in ways women my age aren't.
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Not looking now. I've offered my key to a very gracious lady, and we're negotiating terms - which may end up switchy before it's all said and done.
So I'm really looking for friends, and maybe lessons in techniques... and ballroom dancing, maybr. |
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