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A random thought: In the "real" world, when things are going well, relationships are easy. It's when things get difficult that the strength of a relationship is tested. i believe there is a correlation in a BDSM relationship. When a submissive has to do something they enjoy, it is easy. It is when they are asked (required?) to do something they find difficult or don't enjoy, that is when they can truly show their desire to please. i'm not talking about being pushed beyond a hard limit (although that may happen on a rare occasion), i mean when they do something that they don't find pleasureable simply because it would please the Dominant, that is when a submissive has truly accomplished something. |
