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itsnotagame2

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About itsnotagame2

A VERY happy update. i have found the most wonderful Domme in the world. More accurately, She has found me. i have offered my service to Her and i desire to learn from Her and be trained by Her. She has accepted my offer and i thank Her from the bottom of my heart.

For any Dominant or submissive who is looking for T/their perfect match. Please do not get discouraged or give up hope. The P/person Y/you are seeking is out there. i have found that out. Y/you will too.
I read this on someone else's profile but I liked it and wanted to share it:

"You are not in this world to live up to other people's expectations, nor should you feel the world must live up to yours."
Another year has passed. It has been....interesting. In the new year, may you find things that bring a smile to your face and give you a warm feeling on the "inside". Thank you to all who have offered advice and suggestions. They were really appreciated.

This is not original although I wish it was. "Self control is knowing you can but deciding you won't." It may not be profound but I think it's very good.

I just want to wish everyone a Healthy, Happy New Year. In 2014, I hope you get all the things you wished for in 2013 and didn't get.  

A random thought: In the "real" world, when things are going well, relationships are easy. It's when things get difficult that the strength of a relationship is tested. i believe there is a correlation in a BDSM relationship. When a submissive has to do something they enjoy, it is easy. It is when they are asked (required?) to do something they find difficult or don't enjoy, that is when they can truly show their desire to please. i'm not talking about being pushed beyond a hard limit (although that may happen on a rare occasion), i mean when they do something that they don't find pleasureable simply because it would please the Dominant, that is when a submissive has truly accomplished something.

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