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I'm seeking friends. Why? Because for me, I must have a connection. It needn't be "true love" but it does need to be something there besides a mutual BDSM desire. Yes, I can inflict pain on someone but if you think that's all there is to this, we're not going to be a match. If, however, you understand the mental aspect and the time needed to build that, perhaps we could communicate.
In life, I love to read, to learn and I tend to be one who tries to pursue what's right. I love the beach. There is nothing better than the ocean.
Local is a plus. I don't travel to meet people. Although, I'm considering it. ;)
I'm not necessarily looking for a LTR. I already have one of those and am quite happy. More a friend and playmate with whom the relationship can be solid for both of us, gratifying for both of us and stable. If the friendship/play relationship is long-term. Great. But I'm not looking to fall in love, get married and wander off into the sunset. ;) Again, already have that.
We are all living our lives and sometimes we have copious amounts of spare time with which to devote to friendship building, relationship building and, well, playing. Because we ARE all living our lives, that also means that at any given moment, one of us may be unavailable for a period of time. That's life and the relationship needs to be one that we're both okay with that.
I do not wish to receive photos of genitals or toys. I've been here before and am sadly too familiar with the things that people feel compelled to send to others and "request" in the first nanoseconds of a message.
Should you decide to contact me, you should know that if there is not a photo with the message, it won't be read and you won't receive a response. If you send a photo of genitals, toys, etc., those won't receive a response either. Please be a non-smoker (smoking is a deal breaker), intelligent, honest and willing to get to know each other for a while.
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