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OK. ?So...here's the deal. ? Who I am: 1. ?An extremely intelligent, well-read, professional guy who knows what I want. 2. ?A guy who isn't in any rush whatsoever. 3. ?A real person who isn't interested in bringing street trash home to Mom & Dad or to the company Xmas party. 4. ?A one-woman guy who doesn't EVER "kiss and tell" or cheat. ?Period. ?No exceptions. 5. ?A compassionate and empathetic guy who actually likes to get to know the women he sleeps with FIRST. 6. ?An emotionally stable GROWN-UP who is capable of having a GROWN-UP relationships. ?This means open communication, honesty, trust, and in general not going psycho if either one of us decides to move on and does so in a respectful, honest, and sincere manner. ? ? Who I am NOT: 1. ?A guy so desperate to get laid he will do, say, or fuck, anything. 2. ?A guy who cannot control his own dick...much less a submissive. 3. ?A guy who will make you feel cheap or slimy...even when we engage in some deliciously kinky activities. ?:) 4. ?A guy who will spend endless amounts of money on you because they are insecure with themselves and their ability to bring pleasure to a woman without using their wallet. ?Women who attempt to manipulate men to do such things are generally referred to as "hookers" and I am not interested in meeting one. 5. ?A guy who thinks that "dominance" = beating women and nothing more. 6. ?Someone who doesn't know what they want. ? Who YOU should be: 1. Mentally and emotionally stable and secure with yourself and your body. 2. Disease-free. 3. Safe, sane, and presentable as a "vanilla" girlfriend in public. 4. Intelligent and able to hold a good conversation about a wide variety of subjects. 5. Aware of yourself and your limits. 6. Height/Weight proportionate, able to dress yourself and look "put together" when the occasion calls for it and not like a tornado hit the Hot Topic 100% of the time. ? Final Note:? Physical appearances aren't everything. ?I am more interested in who you are as a person than in whether or not you look like Collarme Barbie. ?I have been with some amazingly hot women that weren't worth dealing with their bullshit and I've been with some very "average" or even "plain" looking women who blew my mind. ?It's not a contest and I'm not looking for a "trophy". ?But I do want someone that "fits" with the rest of my life too. ? ? Anyways...if any of that sounds like it might be you or if you are interested in learning more about me...just hit me up with a message.? ? Let's talk, get to know one another, and then see what happens. ?We might both be pleasantly surprised. ?:)