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hopingforhonesty

I feel like I was always kinky but only came out to myself and publicly last spring. It's been almost a year now although that's hard to believe. I kind of jumped in with both feet and when I do get out in the scene I'm fairly involved. I'm a strange person when it comes to kink and often surprise people. I'm fairly shy and quiet until I get to know you but I'm a Dom/Top and when I go into the mode you'll see it clearly. I love marks and enjoy being stapled but don't do needles. I'm not really masochistic per se but I don't mind pain at all. I'm a bit of a service top and most of my scenes are very focused on my bottom/sub and bringing both pain and pleasure to them. I'm very good at both. I have the "good guy" demeanor but it hides a very clever and inventive sadist beneath. I am really competitive and when playing that usually means I'm competing with myself and the last time I played with someone and coming up with a more creative way of playing. I love to make ordinary things kinky and I love to disguise kinky things as ordinary things. In my personal life I'm a computer expert, both professionally and as a hobby. I also love to write and of course read. I'm kind of a paradox in many ways. I can be shy and can be forward. I seem really mild-mannered but am a dominant. Am a very nice guy but am also a sadist. I like staples but not needles. Most people like me once they get to know me though. I like to play but only with people I know. I love meeting new people and getting to know people but don't expect to play with me the first night we meet. If you're interested in playing or just chatting, go ahead and send a message. I don't accept friend requests from people I've never met if they haven't messaged me first but I reply to all messages.