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I am definitely more attracted to the alpha male that would be submissive only to me. To others his submission would appear as his being chivalrous and old-fashioned in the way he takes care of, caters to me.. However, he and I would be very clear about the underlying dynamic between the two of us I am searching for a Man (keyword here) who is capable of initiating affectionate interaction. If I have to tell a Man to hold my hand, you are not going to make my short list. You may be submissive, but I still expect you to have all the feelings and needs of a heterosexual male. I am searching for a man who is interested in more than just Play. I am searching for a man who is capable and willing to pursue long term commitment. I am curious about men who switch. I am searching for a submissive man who is interested in a female led relationship. I am actively exploring the BDSM lifestyle and though I have no real life experience in this area at this time, I am looking for a Man who will enjoy exploring this dynamic with me. This will be a relationship of mutual respect and caring. I seek a submissive who has "time" to explore this lifestyle as well as all the wonders of vanilla relationships with me "Real time". Right now, I'm exploring and curious about CBT, Spanking, restraint, and Personal Service. I am not interested in an online relationship. I'm seeking something in real life only. I do not have time or patience for sex chat that is going absolutely nowhere. I am not interested in sissy boys or forced feminization. Sorry, but I really like my men to be MEN.

I am not interested in adult babies-not now, not ever. Again, I like my men to be MEN. I am not interested in Eunuchs. I'm so sorry, I understand there are many searching, but this is not my kink. I am not searching for a bisexual male. If you are looking for someone who will solve all your problems and allow you to run away from the life you are unhappy with, find a therapist. Don't look here. I am not a professional mistress, so if that is what you seek, I am not it.