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I'm a daddy/dom. I'm looking for a baby girl/submissive/slave to take care of and to own. I believe in very firm discipline. But, I'm a very sweet guy and easy to get along with. I'm a college educated professional in a technical field. I am also a lifelong musician and I play in a band locally. I'm an extremely good conversationalist having had the benefit of both a liberal arts and a technical education. I am an animal lover (not in THAT way...jeez...filthy minds... *smiles*). I have an off beat sense of humor and a quick wit. I am a native Tennessean. I am very tolerant of others. Okay, now here is the very long version of the same thing. The Basics
I am a daddy to the core. I am looking for my perfect little daughter to love and protect and take care of and to explore together the darker recesses of our sexuality. I know how delicate a little girl's heart can be. I want to make my little girl happy and fill her life with all the daddy love she can handle. When she's good, I will surround her with approval, praise and affection. When she is bad, I will correct her firmly. When she is very bad, I will spank her hard so she remembers the lesson. I want to teach my little girl all the hard lessons that it took me years of painful experiences to learn so she doesn't have to learn the hard way. If she needs it, I want to help her be the big girl she wants to be. But, I hope that she will always want to stay with her daddy and be my baby girl forever. I have been both a daddy and a real life father before and I know this is who I am and what I want from life. I know how to do this right. Vanilla Stuff
I am a software engineer professionally. Been doing that for a very long time. Although if I had to choose another profession, I think I'd be a vet. Let's see. I have played guitar my whole life. I've played in my share of bands. Mostly Blues bands and 60's and 70's rock bands. I'm actually pretty good. I have a little recording studio in my house. I have 3000-4000 songs on my iPod. I LOVE music. I love animals, especially cats. I've had them all my life and I can relate to the little guys. I love dogs too. I've always wanted to have a bunch or atypical pets like I seriously want a skunk. I've heard they aren't bad pets if you get them de-scented. I'd love to raise a bobcat too. But, I've heard that is hard. I live in the country BTW. Geek Stuff
I am seriously interested in history, science and politics. I had an excellent liberal arts education in college and it really set me up to have a life long love of learning (say that 10 times real fast).
  • I'm really into history, especially Late Antiquity and the Middle Ages.
  • My dad is a Physics professor and so I can actually explain to someone what Quantum Mechanics is all about.
  • I minored in Psychology and my interest in BDSM has given me a field day of analytical fun.
  • I really love Geology also. My house sits on rocks from the Ordovician period, ~400 million years old.
  • I took a ton of art classes in college, art history and film mostly. So, I can tell you why Caravaggio was important and why Citizen Kane is considered the greatest film ever even though it is only moderately entertaining.
  • I am not politically active. Although I do contribute to Quora regularly and I have a small following on that site. My politics are definitely to the left of center. But, what I enjoy the most is trying to figure out how the world really works and coming up with completely new ways of organizing a society in the modern age of globalism and technology.
Life With My Little Girl This is how I want life with my little girl to be. I want to have a real daddy/daughter relationship with her except...well...we do...things....together.
  • I love being called "daddy". I never get tired of hearing it.
  • I love it when my princess draws or colors for me or some other kind of art. I will keep them on the refrigerator and at my cube at work.
  • I love reading bedtime stories. It gives me a chance to do different voices and make my kitten laugh with my somewhat off the wall interpretation.
  • I am very firm and consistent with disciplining my baby girl. I'm not afraid to spank her good if she deserves it.
  • I want my little girl to be free to be a little girl as much as she wants to. Even if she wants to be a little girl every day, all the time, that will be just great with me.
  • I love to cuddle and I am very cuddly. I'm a bit round and I am very warm all the time. Everyone who has ever been that close to me has remarked about how warm I am.
  • I want to fall in love with my little girl. I love being a daddy and having a daughter to take care of. That kind of love is wonderful. But, I want to be in love with her too. That has never happened in the past daddy/daughter relationships I've had. I know it is possible. At least, I hope so.
  • I want us to have a gloriously kinky sex life together. I'm willing to try new things. I want us to explore every sick an twisted idea that comes through our collective minds. I want us to feel safe with each other to completely open up and not hold anything back no matter how afraid, confused, ashamed or bewildered we are with those ideas and the feels that go with them. I will never judge my little girl for those thing.
  • I want us to do lots of daddy/daughter fun stuff together like go to the zoo or build-a-bear or amusement parks or the movies or to get ice cream late at night. I want us to BE father and daughter as far as the rest of the world is concerned. I guess I find it deliciously kinky to give them that idea an then o something subtle that makes them wonder just what kind of relationship we have.
  • I want my little girl to have other little friends. I don't want to smother her and take her away from having a life of her own if that is what she wants.
  • I want my little girl to feel safe physically and emotionally. I want her to know that everything is going to be okay. I know a lot of little girls have had hard lives and are "broken" in some way. Although I do have the urge to want to "fix" things. I know that it can't be done by myself (one of life's lessons I learned the hard way). But, I do very much want to help her pick up the pieces and try to put them back together in some way that makes a better life for her.