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I am not new to the overall idea of D/s....I have experimented in the past but must say many elements scared me and I also was unsure of myself. That being said, I find myself interested still and very attracted to dominant men. I enjoy mental stimulation as it is erotic....which allows the physical stimulation to follow. I like a man that not only is capable of being in control but has control of himself. I like an intelligent man, not one that is only capable of physically controlling me. I like a man that, in some ways (not all), makes me feel inferior. I am impressed by his knowledge, his hobbies, his interests and love "looking up" to a man because I not only respect him but his mind as well. Overall, I have recently started dating again...after over a year timeframe which I decided to purposefully take for myself. I find it hard to describe what it is I am after. I realize that some are far more hardcore than I will ever be. I am not looking to hook up or just play. I am here to figure me out and see if ANY of this is truly for me. I hope what I have said makes some sense. I will try to update this as I move forward!