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You won't find large numbers of "friends" or similar. I find the Facebook friends culture rather self-defeating. Yes, I'm picky, fussy, and judgmental. Having said that, I also acknowledge that I'm not always right, so I do try to listen with an open mind to others. I am intelligent and want someone that can converse on many subjects, who is thoughtful (as in full of thoughts and ideas) as well as considerate. Don't expect me to discuss the latest episode of whatever sitcom is currently trendy. I believe strongly in politeness and manners, as well as etiquette. I believe in clarity and that if something is misunderstood, it is the fault of both parties (although in a D/s relationship, only one party gets punished for it ;)