I'm mostly a rope bottom/sub but lately I've been fascinated with learning to rig and co-top. I've been in the lifestyle less than a year and am active in the community. I'm always eager to learn - I am attending Midori's rope dojo workshop in Toronto. I love everything about rope.

I'm looking to make friends in the scene and potentially find a partner. Although I'm active, I am discreet and not 'out' in my life. I'm not interested in a full time kinky relationship - in fact it can be fairly vanilla with a perverted (kink/swing) edge. It would be great if you were a big rope fan too but its not essential. I'm open to poly relationships as long as everyone is being honest and respected. Poly relationships take more work but I respect the flexibility and courage that goes with them.

As a bottom/sub I love to be dominated by the ropes, suspension is wonderful - hair pulling drives me crazy. I like to co-top occassionally for fun but I am not looking for a male sub. I like objectifying women and making them look pretty, I like tying up men and leaving them in a corner.

I don't move fast and I screen pretty carefully. A plus, if you're active in the community and have references.