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2/8/2009 4:09:21 PM
Recently released my pet and am searching once more.  Her and I are amazing friends and still have a connection but she decided that at this point committment was not for her and she craved something more casual.
10/5/2008 11:40:53 PM

I Need To Vent!!

So I posted something similiar to this in response in a group but I felt I might as well voice my opinions here as well.  Its one of those things that once the thought enters your mind, it nags at you until you say something about it so here I am getting rid of the nagging urge.

I recently posted something in the admin group about adding a feature so people could search for others on this site.  Immediately a rage of responses came about the women being "harrassed" by men.  This mentality that has come about in recent years is utterly rediculous and is quite frankly offensive.  Whether submissive or dominant I respect the women's equality movement and in no way think that women should be without a voice.  Even with my 50's style thoughts about the man being a king of the household, I believe in women in the workplace, equal pay, etc.  What I cannot stand is how things have gotten so rediculously out of hand.

The way society is today everything has gotten so out of whack its sickening.  Starting with the womens issue.  Submission is a gift and women deserve respect I understand that.  However, I am sick and tired of women who bitch and moan about a man contacting them saying they are being harrassed.  It used to be people took it as a compliment if they were approached and politely declined if they werent interested.  Now if you even approach a woman you are harrassing them, and furthermore if they want to be a real bitch they can claim sexual harrassment.  No women should not be molested in the work place, or have to sleep there way to the top, but if a guy compliments you on your looks or your sweater or something smile and take it.  Dont be some feminist bitch with penis envy and go cry to your HR representative.  If you are approached on a site like this and you dont like who you are being approached by politely tell them and if they persist ignore them.  Men and women both get off your fucking high horses because even super models dont have a right to be a bitch.

This brings to mind a story that shows how truly warped this society has become.  A few years back when I was hosting a radio morning show, we got a story on our news wire.  A mother of a 5 year old girl was suing the school and the mother of a 5 year old boy because said boy kissed her daughter on the playground.  The woman wanted money from the school and juvenile jail time for the little boy saying he ATTACKED her daughter and was a deviant.  Furthermore she said he had damaged her daughter for life.  Little boys kiss little girls on the playground lady shut the hell up.  Frankly instead of doing anything to the school or the little boy, the mother of the little girl should have had her daughter taken away and her right to give birth taken away. Women like this, people like this are the downfall of our country.  They are the ones who drag this country back from its own growth.  Who make the laws so warped that if you have a penis and the person accusing you is a woman you are guilty. Women like this raise their children to think of sex as dirty and preach abstinence crap,  Instead of our country becoming liberated and open ist fucks like this that turn it back of the worse.  We cant nessecarily line up and shoot them but I think these people are the ones who give liscencing for child birth a reason.  The same people who when that daughter is 15 will press charges against her 18 year old boyfriend for statutory rape just because she had sex.  She could have been a filthy slut begging to be fucked in the backseat of his car, but her close minded parents dont want their little baby being open with her sexuality.

Lets talk on one other thing here now that I am in outrage mode.  One of the other true downfalls of this country is organized religion.  I can understand the need for such a thing when it was first developed.  When to stave off anarchy and to bring morality to the uneducated and uncivilized masses a set of rules was set forth.  At that point forever ago there was a reason for religion.  However in modern times must we really believe in fairytales and the moral code of a bygone era?  Are we really that naive to believe in a man in the clouds who watches over us?  Even if there is a higher power people need to stop believing that the buybull is his word.  The BIBLE is nothing but a code of morals from a bygone era.  Religion is nothing but a way to control and brainwash the masses into false hope and for those who need a reason to live good lives.  Even now though that fundamental message has been altered.  Religion is now a reason to hate, to kill, to attack our fellow men because they have different ideals.  If I hear one more person that I can actually see face to face say that being gay is a sin or spout off religion as a reason to hurt anyone I will beat them sensless with their own bible and then piss on it.  Believe in fairytales all you like but stop using it as a reason to hate and dont you dare bring your children there.  Children should not be allowed to attend church until they are at least in high school and can think for themselves.  Fuck you and your "good book" Ill live my life well because I want to, not because I need an excuse.  I will have gay friends, fuck before marriage, engage in anal sex, drink, dance, smoke, and even work on sunday.  You dont like it fuck off!  You crazy fucks are part of the reason we got stuck with the worst president in HISTORY!

Oh and one last thing before I forget, because this just happened the other day.  I smoke, fuck you!  If im out in the open im going to smoke, if im in a bar im going to smoke, if you dont like it dont come near me.  I was walking outside the mall where my studio is to get a soda and had a cigarette.  A woman pushed past me and had the audacity to say loudly as she entered a store, OH MY GOD I feel like I just smoked 8 cigarettes.  I wanted to tackle her and put my cigarette out in her eye.  You dont like my smoke then walk the other fucking direction.  I can deal with not smoking in restaurants but beyond that fuck you.  Having to leave Busch Stadium thats OPEN AIR to smoke is STUPID.  Not being able to smoke in bars in some towns in STUPID.  You dont want to be bothered by second hand smoke?  I dont want to bothered by ignorance!  Say it again and become my human ashtray!

Ok im done!

8/26/2008 1:07:39 PM
Many people in this life keep themselves on the outer fringe and conform themselves greatly to the triskeli ideals of Safe Sane and Consensual.  Furthermore they rely heavily on safe words as protection.

The debate between both these choices is usually heated on both sides and today I felt like throwing my two cents in.  I believe FIRMLY in Risk Aware Consesual Kink (R.A.C.K.).  Now for short term play, playmates, strangers I believe there is NO OTHER way to play besides S.S.C.!  When playing with a new partner, someone who you do not know well and havent built trust with safe words are a must and edge play is too risky.

The difference is the long term, the 24/7, the permanently collared.  I believe a true bdsm relationship can only be R.A.C.K.!  You can submit and get to subspace with a safeword, but you are always holding something back and will never FULLY give yourself to that person.  Submission is about trust in your partner and you should trust them enough to know when to stop and to know that will NEVER do anything to permanently damage or harm you.  RACK play is just that.  Taking someone to their limits and pushing them both being aware of the risks but knowing they will not do anything that could kill you.  Knifeplay, needle play, fireplay, all of these things can be entirely safe with a knowledgeable and trusted partner. 

If you are serious about your choice in this life and want to truly explore your submission, find a long term partner you trust and cast out the safeword!  Youll never regret it!
lanalen
 
 Age: 42
 Milton Keynes, United Kingdom