As a fyi i have had a bad experience with a belt and with a wood paddle. I had a wicked stepfather and the associations trip me back. I did a lot better with floggers and whips.

The Domme who was training me to get hard while giving foot worship was also training me to get hard to pain. Her goal was to get me to orgasm to pain alone but things changed and we stopped the training before I could get there.

She started with me in wrist and ankle cuffs on my back, spread eagle, with legs and left hand tied to bed frame. She started with a flogger - had me jack off while she administered light blows.

She would increase the force til i wilted then had me re stimulate. When I began to get hard in response to the flogger she moved to the cutting whip.

She would deliver one blow then wait for endorphins. She would have me jo til hard.

Over time she got to point she could hit hard enough to leave bruises and i would stay hard (but not cum as she wanted).

She said she enjoyed seeing bruises she had inflicted in all stages of healing and once or twice she did break the skin.

My Domme used to like a threesome with a vanilla guy, particularly one who made it a point to broadcast his heterosexuality.

She would schedule a date with him and throughout it, give him the touch on the arm, the lingering gaze, and all the other subtle cues that said she would like to become a closer friend.

During the evening she would share more or less intimate bits of her life, in a way that invited him to reciprocate. And after sharing a number of confidences she would announce that she owned a slave and ask him of that bothered him.

For most guys in that state of arousal her ownership of a slave was not a problem. When the evening progressed as anticipated, he would accept her invitation to return to her place. Once on the way she would unobtrusively send a text to notify me.

My instructions were to undress, put on wrist and ankle cuffs and lay out my collar. My cock has been pierced and I would use a large padlock to lock the ring in it to a chain around my thigh.

I would kneel near the front door and wait for her and her date to arrive. When she entered I would keep my face downcast until she turned my face up to her to collar me. She would direct me to the bedroom where I would turn down the bed and kneel.

She would then have me remove her shoes, outer garments, and underwear while her date undressed. She would take his hand and lead him to the bed while I continued to kneel at the foot.

She would lead the foreplay, increasing the intensity until he couldn't wait any longer to go down on her. At that point she would call out to me and explain that it made her so much more excited for her slave to worship her feet as she was being stimulated.

After some period of time she would say it was time to take a break and have him roll on to his back. She would roll on to him and kiss him, bite at his nipples and use her hand to stroke his cock. Once he was throbbing she would tell him "Fido has to clean you first."

She would then instruct me to be gentle and clean him with my tongue. She would tell me to make sure I didn't overstimulate him.

Once I bent over him and took him into my mouth she would use one hand to jack him off and her other hand to entwine the hair on the back of my head and guide my rhythm along the shaft and head of his cock.

I knew what she planned because she had instructed me - She didn't particularly care for intercourse and she would continue the cleaning until he ejaculated enough times to go completely limp.

Of course she would yell at me, threaten me with all kinds of punishments and apologize profusely for my stupidity.

After he left she would praise me and tell me how much she enjoyed seeing this manly man enjoy having his cock sucked by another man.