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experimentalist

Genius, Billionaire, Playboy, Philanthropist. About me: I'm a full-time PhD student in computer science looking to eventually go into academia. I'm ambitious, nerdy, busy, creative, geeky, and of course, kinky. I work hard and I play hard. I live to learn but have also learned to live it up. I have high expectations of myself and work hard to achieve them. I love games of all sorts (video, board, tabletop, card, oh, and I guess kink), I love puns, I love music, and I love generally geeky things. If you read that sentence and said "oh, yeah, me too!" then we'll probably get along great. Oh, and I'm a bit of a beero (kind of like a wino?), so we should probably get a beer sometime. What I'm looking for: I'm open to either a play partner or a more serious, committed relationship. -If you are looking for play, I'm into bondage, sensory play (tickling, orgasms, temperature play, impact play, etc.), denial, rough sex, and I have a more recent and growing interest in humiliation. I might be described as a sensual sadist - I enjoy watching subs suffer, but like to complement that with more gentle experiences at appropriate times. Domination-wise, I enjoy a not-quite-24/7 dynamic, or bedroom++: I don't want to be controlling your every action 24/7, I want you to be autonomous by default, but I will take control of you when I demand it, inside or outside of the bedroom. I have a strong affinity for CNC, but will only engage in this once there is mutual trust. If any of this sounds interesting to you, message me, and let's chat. -If you are looking for something more serious, I would love to find something long-term. Obviously, in the bedroom, everything I listed above still applies. Dynamic-wise, I don't want someone who's completely dependent on me. I mentioned at the beginning I'm busy and hard-working: as such, I don't want you to be revolving your life around me at all times. I want you to primarily be your own, successful, satisfied person who wants to seep some D/s dynamics into various aspects of her life. If you're looking for someone to tell you exactly what to do at all times of the day, sorry, you'll have to look elsewhere. But if you're a girl who gets wet from the idea of being put to bed in chains each night or told to wear certain things under her clothes in public while otherwise living a standard life, let's talk more. MOST IMPORTANTLY! for either item, the #1 most important thing to me is that we're compatible as friends. If we can't hang out and talk and have fun in a vanilla sense, it's unlikely the other aspects of our relationship will be really pay off. If you're intrigued, send me a message; I'd love to chat more. (I have more pictures, but I only share them with people I'm messaging)