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About me: I recently moved here, so I am new to both the area in general and the local bdsm community. I have had 1 (relatively) long-term bdsm relationship, but I am hoping to eventually find one that lasts a lifetime. I am currently living with relatives and hope to start taking classes in the spring, but for now I am just looking for a job and seeing what is out there... What I like in men: I have always been submissive and a masochist, even before I knew what it really meant. So, I tend to be immediately drawn to very dominant people. I prefer men who are mature, experienced, self-assured, sane, quick to take control without losing control. I tend to like multi-dimensional people that can surprise me. The perfect balance for me is someone who is both sadistic and sexual, sane but unpredictable, who can teach but who also expects a slave to know her place. I have never really been drawn to a submissive man, as they can usually be one-dimensional, but if they are with a Domme as part of a couple it could be possibly more appealing. What I like in women: For me, I like both dominant and submissive women as there is a difference in how I view other women compared to men (other than the obvious differences LOL). Another submissive can be like a sister and a dominant woman is someone I can respect as much as a dominant man. Ok, so if you mail me I can tell you more if you have questions. The are some things that would probably cause me not to reply, like people who want to discuss or participate in bestiality. I love animals but I do not love animals. But, for the most part, I am open and willing to talk about anything and answer almost any genuine question, regardless of its "shock" value!