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About Moi
I was in a 2 year D/s live-in relationship, that ended about 3 months ago. It was more-or-less a mutual split. I wanted to submit more, and He wanted to stick with it being more kink-based. We are still friends, and get together every now and then for coffee and chat about what is up with me, and what He has going on in His life. Again, there should be nothing more read into the coffee chats, we literally are friends, to the point he pretty much considers me His "little sister" at this point. He doesn't have any say in what I'm doing here, though He is aware, and just wishes I be safe and smart about my search.

Moving on ... to my choice of kinks

I am into being a neko (kitten-girl), actually that's not true... I'm more into the fox thing, but I don't find many "get" it, even though it is no different to puppy-girl, or kitten play. Yes, I adore collars, and ears and fox tails, and eating out of bowls, and curling up on the floor on a huge pillow. To the extent I tend to do it even when I am only watching a movie.

I also love being slapped, choked, having my hair gripped and forced to my knees... shoved against a wall.. or on a bed... I enjoy rough play - knife play, rape-play, is all included in what i consider "rough".

Darker kinks --- Here's my thoughts on this... yes, i like Watersports (sometimes), Yes i like the idea of being shared (not that I want to be), yes i imagine gangbangs and swapping, But i wouldn't do it because it is extremely dangerous not just for me, but other people involved.
I like the idea of hypnotism, but I don't know that I want it done to me.

I love the idea of TPE (without needing to be micromanaged). That said, i also like the thought of being completely being micromanaged too.. lol

Important Facts About Moi

I am in college and am an Art History major. I work, and have an internship on top of working.

I love traveling, and would love to relocate almost anywhere.

I am 420 friendly.

I am disease free (because I am a "scene" kid - for those who don't know what that is, ask away --- I do get tested, because - things happen at raves, things happen with.. both guys and girls).

I am bi, but I don't know that I am ok with being in a poly relationship ( am still discovering my opinions and feelings on that subject).

I really don't want to get messages from submissive men asking me to control them in any way whatsoever.

You can call me Harper --- and since You have gotten this far and not clicked to a different profile I am impressed. Why don't you send me a message and say hi! Even if you just wanna chat, ask a question, or make a friend.



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9/11/2014 2:55:00 AM
Best thing I've EVER heard ---

"I think I'm a freak cos if I saw a literal fox transform into a beautiful half naked girl that wanted to fuck me I'd fuck her  so long as she's got a human face and pussy I'm good to go"
--- LD90

9/10/2014 11:41:17 PM
HAHAHAHA

Don't get ass hurt if i don't read your message and it gets deleted, I can't stand pages of unread messages that i wont ever get through...

If my attention is that important to you? either you'll try again, or make it so it's evident in the first sentence so that when I scroll over your message in my inbox I know to respond rather than getting a message bitching at me when i delete a message among pages of messages i'd never get through if i (like you suggest) respond to EVERY BLOODY MESSAGE.

It ain't gonna happen busta!  i don't have time to do that... sorry. 

peace love and harmony

harper

9/9/2014 2:38:26 PM
If your intention in emailing is to degrade me over pictures, convince me I'm stupid, or convince of bs that you want me to believe...

Don't bother... thank you!

9/9/2014 9:40:58 AM

Thought of the Day

 

If you think about it - “Slut” is attacking a woman for her right to say ‘yes.’  And by complaining about the ‘Friend Zone’ you shame a woman for her right to say no. 

If the concept is difficult for you to grasp, think of it this way –

Let’s say you have a 19 year old daughter, obviously for the purpose of this concept we need to have her be at the age of consent.  Anyway, back to the image you need in your head.  Your daughter is 19… She has sex with a guy, or different guys, but is safe about it – she is exploring her sexuality as a woman.  Seems if it is okay for a guy to do – it should be okay for a woman.  And yet because she chose to say yes, she is called a slut.  Now, this is YOUR daughter… Wouldn’t you as a parent or uncle or aunt wish to support her right to say yes and figure out her sexual identity rather than repress it solely because she is a woman? 

By the same token – Again, Your Daughter or Niece or whatever, Has a guy that she is friends with, but she just does NOT see him as the kind of guy she wants to be involved with sexually – this has been termed  the “Friend Zone.”  This term – criticizes her for her decision to say no to any given guy.  To me, it sounds as if people feel they are entitled to having a sexual encounter with any given woman at any given time. 


What it really sounds like? Is that there is no right choice for a woman.  No matter which she chooses she is villafied for her choice.  A choice that is hers alone to make.  A choice that is NO ONE else’s business. 

 


9/9/2014 2:39:54 AM
I'm all for the 1950's kind of relationship, which, when I stumbled upon the article that is linked below, it made me laugh.

Now, to be clear, I don't particularly find these women at fault, and I don't agree with the way some of the husbands in the study handled things, particularly the one where it was obviously abusive near the end of the article. 

But, knowing the intricacies of how DD relationships are led, and how Male-led household's work, I thought some of the suggestions that the women were told were kind of spot on...

"The counsellor wrote that Elsa was ‘jolted and shocked when I told her she was partly at fault’. This wife needed to be convinced out of her own self-righteous understanding of the situation, the counsellor argued. ‘If she wanted a serene family life, she would have to learn to give Josh what he wanted from their marriage and thereby help him control his temper.’"  

Of course by giving what the man needs and desires, makes the household run easier, and the relationship less confrontational.  In my mind that is just common sense, but I guess to some women, both currently, and back in the 50's ... That wasn't the case... 

I did get a good laugh at how it does create the concept that most marital issues are of course, "the woman's fault".  No wonder those women always appear to be hiding some issue like smoking, drinking, or receiving a cocktail of meds to manage her moods and pleasantness.

Read the article: http://aeon.co/magazine/psychology/the-warped-world-of-1950s-marriage-counselling/


9/8/2014 4:19:09 PM
I have a simple philosophy: Fill what's empty.  Empty what's full.  Scratch where it itches.  - Alice Roosevelt Longworth

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