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| I'm actually much nicer than I probably sound in this profile. But from my experience with this website, there are many "types" to weed out, so here we go:
I am not interested in those who butcher the English language. Occasional chat acronyms are fine, or occasional typos, but first impressions matter, even in an online messaging board. Bdsm does not mean abandoning respect for oneself and one's audience.
I also get that women are overwhelmed by messages and offers on here, and I'm not particularly interested in competing with those waves of inbox desperation. Feel free to message me, because for the time being, I'm not messaging women on here. (Get over yourselves.) Dominance, when you really get down to it, is about self-control and self-development. It is not about weakly imposing upon other people, to "do as I say" before the privilege and trust of d/s is earned.
What I am interested in: always safe, sane, and consensual; having conversations first; emphasizing mutual personal growth; exploring power dynamics.
I want to get to know who you are first. I realize this may be asking for way too much from this website. Regardless, I am looking for conversations first, as human beings. If that's too complicated to manage, please don't message me. I don't "need" this website to find women "into the lifestyle." As such, I carry my real-life expectations of people, onto this website: that any person I spend time with, will demonstrate some measure of social competence. This really shouldn't be too much to ask, but apparently, it all too often is. If you don't know what I'm talking about, think "professionalism," and apply that to how you act and talk to other people. Playing (non-scene) games is a waste of time and energy.
About me: academic and artistic. Want to know more? Ask!
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