Well here goes nothing. Another new profile, another list of hopes and expections. I personally think everyone has them going into any situation - some of which are achievable, and ones that are basic ideals that will never be achieved - I like to think that the best from any situation can be brought to the surface. If it isn't a challenge, why do it, if it wasn't a challenge, it wouldn't be a short cut. IT WOULD BE THE WAY.

people say I’m a little 'Blonde' - i think i have to disagree but - i do say stupid things, i don’t think before i speak, i fall over constantly (even when sober), i always have to have jokes explained to me, i ask lots of questions, but i do make lots of people laugh - with me and not at me though

Okay, me, in a nut shell. I hate the word 'normal' I just don't see the appeal, so I try in everything I do to be a little bit different from what everyone wants me to be. I am extremely independently minded, a wicked sense of humour, UBER left wing, to the point it may in-fact be crossing into possible dangerous grounds. What else, currently on one of those wonderful year away from uni, as I just become delusional with the direction my life was taking, so I did what every good person should do, took me a year out to mope about my room and annoy my parents. I have a clearer idea of who I want to be now and where I want to be in 5 fives, and really that sort of goes hand in hand with why I am on this site...

So what am I looking for? I really hate the thought of having an ideal man/women/person in my head, as I feel it may just distract me from what may indeed be the perfect person if I search for the fantasy, if you see what I mean. Anyways, I am not looking for someone who wants nothing but a cheap thrill online, been there, been that girl before, it gets boring very fast, I am looking for that person who I can talk to as well as be ‘more’ with. What really annoys me, is people who go to fast, WHY? Whats the rush really, time is on our side, living is the longest thing any of us will ever do, other things can go fast, but why try to force something that is clearly not going to work.

Likes and dislikes I am sure we can discuss that at a later date.

Interests in BDSM are covered on other parts of my profile.