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First of all, you can see there is no picture listed. This is intentional, as I am not going to be showing everyone and their cousin what I look like unless they are actually interested and willing to put effort into conversation and their curiosity. So to those that skim pictures instead of text, I'll be glad you miss my profile.
Secondly, I am a switch and have both dominant and submissive tendencies. If both sides cannot be facilitated somehow (which is discussable), then I can assure you that seeking a relationship out of me that even vaguely resembles 24/7 is not going to work out. I am a creature of many settings, and working on the whole me instead of part of me will work out so much better.
Thirdly, I am not here to simply fool around or get my rocks off. While I am a very sexually intimate person, I am not here to simply fuck others and be on my way, or be fucked by others. I want some content in my relations with whoever I end up being around.. be them friends, playmates or Dom/mes.
Now, here's the fair warnings on things. I am currently collared to someone but I am seeking to learn more and get some expression out that I cannot do where I am right now. If that is too much for you or you think I'm cheating, then by all means walk the other way. If you understand that I am seeking to learn more about the lifestyle, that I wish to express myself in different forms with different people, and that I would like to be enjoyed and enjoy others as well as whom has me collared, then keep reading.
* I am not a pain slut, so please don't expect high pain tolerance or enjoyment of painful agony out of me.
* I am not into being art.
* I am >definately< not into bodily excrement. (Brown/Golden Showers) There is one exception to GS, but that is VERY hard to get me into.
* No permanency. Meaning tattoos, branding, piercings, nor a perm-collar. I am always changing and even if I ended up taking a pet of my own I wouldn't make it a permanent (life-long) collar until later in life.
* I am straight with a bisexual curiosity. I lean heavily towards females mostly. Getting me around a male in a submissive manner is difficult unless I have a female around.
* I am very sexually expressive, so I cannot handle no-sex relations. Yes I am clean, and no I will not have sexual intimacy with just anyone. Also, chastity is a no-no.
* I am not a slave, I am a switch. I prefer to have even ground somewhere with those I play with, submit to, or dom. Please don't ask me to be a slave, it won't work out well in my head.
* I do not do 'No-Strings Housework'.
I know, I demand a lot. Many say that those that are picky get nothing they want. Many also say that asking for anything will get you nothing you need. I just know some things I want and don't want now.
One other thing. I can't handle kids at this point in my life. I like the little buggers at a distance, but I just honestly can't handle them for long periods of time. It's a phase ... I'll grow out of it I'm sure. So please, only people living without kids, or I am around when they're not. Something like that.
Next item on the list ... I do not want to be a sub/pet/playmate/dom to anyone over age 45, and nothing under 20 (if I can avoid it). I want people around my age.. ya know.. 21-35 tops? I will stretch that to 45 if the subject matter is really good. Along with that, I do take a portion of my enjoyment from a person by how they look physically.
If you're still reading this and think you're going to message me, then please include the answer to this equation (3+2*7=?) so I know you were actually paying attention and not just skimming through.
I cannot drive around a lot, so any one at a long distance may be short of luck. Ideas are welcome, but I'm just putting that down so it's said and understood. Yes, I didn't put down the city of where I live. You'll have to get that out of me during conversation.
Hmm.. what else.
I'll figure out more later, my head hurts. (lol)
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So I took the time to look over some profiles and I think I started laughing at about the third one. I saw one demanding that a submissive was 'popurty' (property?), another with a man saying that women were goddesses yet had the '1950s household' thing on Love it!, which made me laugh harder for some unknown reason (don't bother asking, I don't know why, lol) and then a few of the ever lovable tribute dommes that list as barely 20's yet look like they've barely made it into high school yet.
Well I can't say I didn't get a good laugh in, at least. Right?
On a not so contriversal note:
I have seen the hardass dominants and the ever-so-'to the ground' slaves and submissives... and then everything in between to include the switches like myself. The flow from one extreme to the other is baffling at times, but so very intruiging at times! I was actually to the point where I wasn't even browsing those that interested me so much as I was just looking at where each profile placed on the dom/sub scale. So interesting.
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