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I’m the big handsome out of the box type of guy. I don’t let what others think about me affect my actions or life. Generally I prefer one on one time with people, but can handle myself in any size group and am really good at spinning things to my advantage. I’m a mechanical engineer with my own design build firm, so numbers and being an out of the box thinker are a big part of my life. I’m always thinking of new and odd contraptions to build, luckily my business finances my kinky habits.

Relationship wise I have been single the last year. Dedicated way to much time to developing my business, now that things are running smoothly I feel it’s time to step back a bit and open myself up.

Sexually I am very open, I am capable of the light touch that eases your fears to the brutal beating that leaves you limp and bruised for days. I have participated in the BDSM scene for almost 14 years. As of late I have been designing and building kinky contraptions for the community.

Now looking at my picture, you will say dam he is a handsome devil. Just keep in mind I’m a big ol’ handsome devil.

Life is never dull.

Have I peaked your interest? There is so much more I can go on about, but I prefer actual interaction with people. If you have any questions or want any info just message me.
profile: djc4774
Places I've Lived:
1980-1998 NYC
1998-2003 Rochester, NY attended R.I.T.
2000-2002 Syracuse, NY
2003-Present NYC
Places I've Traveled to:
Portugal (every year)
Spain
England
France
Germany
Luxemburg
Canada (various parts)
35 of our states

10/26/2014 10:28:37 AM

What I need of you my submissive

I need you to feel safe. I need you to let go of your wants and desires, and know that I will to do what is best for you, when you give up control.

I need your trust. I don't expect you to give it blindly – I expect to earn it. But without trust, you cannot surrender. Without surrender, you cannot grow.

I need you to feel secure. I need you to know that I'm not going to break your self-image without making sure that I build it back up stronger than before.

I need you to accept comfort. Sometimes you may crumble. I will be there to pick up the pieces, and to pet you as we continue on.

I need you to tell me about your weaknesses or brokenness. If you have triggers or fears, I need to know about them, to avoid them, or help you dispose of them.

I need your honesty. As our relationship grows, I need to know where your mind is going.

I need you to expect consistency. You are going to get the same reactions, expectations, and boundaries today that you got yesterday, or a year before.

I need you to accept gentleness. Sometimes I'm a sadist, and I do that quite well, but at the end of the day it is often more important to me to cover you in tender kisses, or run my hands gently across your soft skin.

I need you to relinquish control. I need you to give it up willingly, and to allow me to coax it away from you when you can't. Giving up control is a voluntary choice: Ultimately, you will either make that choice, or you won't.

I need you to accept praise. In order to accept praise, you must first accept that you are worthy of receiving it. It is my job to provide praise when you deserve it. It is your job to to believe it.

I need you to accept complements. If your self-image causes you to argue and evade when I tell you that you are beautiful, then you are simply negating the statements of someone who likes you enough to find you so, so that you can wallow in the fact that no one is found beautiful by everyone.

I need you to let go of your inhibitions. They are holding you back from understanding your true self, and holding you back from your submission. It's time to embrace sex as the dirty, sweaty, sticky thing that it is. I can lead you to freedom and experiences you've never imagined ...but I can't carry you there kicking and screaming.

I need you to need to learn and grow. Education, learning, and the ability to think clearly are very important to me. Learning never stops. If you don't believe this, we're not going to get along for long.

I need you to to accept being challenged. I do not expect to have a relationship with a passive person, I expect to have a relationship with a strong assertive person. I need you to stand toe to toe with me, because I expect you to be stronger after you interact with me, than before you met me.

I need you to surrender. Though I will lead you, I will never force you. I need you to come along willingly... or not go at all.
10/26/2014 10:28:04 AM
My Pledge to You, My Dear Submissive

I will cherish and care for you, trying my best to never take you for granted.
I will encourage you in all things, and strengthen you when you feel weak.
I will serve you by allowing you to serve me, as this is what you crave to do.
I will use you and enjoy you in every way I desire, but I will not take advantage of you beyond your limits.
I will explore with you in every way... your body, your mind and your soul.
I will guard you and protect you as best I can, even from yourself when needed.
I will respect you, your limits, your thoughts and your dreams.
I will strive to make your dreams a reality and support you in every way that I can.
I will discipline you when needed to help you become the better you that you want to be.
I will inflict pain from time to time, but mainly for pleasure, and never to harm you.
I will work to build you up, and never tear you down.
I will be honest with you, even when the truth is ugly.
It is My Honor to be your Dominant
My primary responsibility with you is to help make you better than when I first met you. That may seem like a simple statement, but I promise you there is so much more to this.
To make you better than you already are is a tall task. I did not choose you because you are weak, but because you are strength to me. I did not choose you because you are frail, but because you are beautiful to me, inside and out, and I want to increase your beauty. I did not choose you because you are broken, but because you are smart and intelligent, and I want to help expand your thoughts and your knowledge.
So I will strive to make you all that you need to be, all that you want to be, and all that you can be. I will celebrate who you are with each step along the way.
10/26/2014 10:26:59 AM
The raw truth of what a submissive seeks

Here's the raw truth:

I want to kneel for you

Feel the full force of your cock
Across my lips
In my mouth
Down my throat

I want to be pulled onto you
As you spank me
Hard
Harder
It will hurt
But I will still push my ass out
For more

I want you to slap my face

I want you to slap my breasts

I want you to choke me

I want you to whip me with your belt

I want the delicate force of a flogger

I want your paddle on my ass and my inner thighs

I want you to fuck me so roughly
I won't be able to catch my breath

I want you to fuck my ass even harder

I want my tongue in your ass

I want to taste your come

I want to be bad

I want to be dirty

Restrained

Legs splayed by spreader bars

Searching for that subspace high

I want to experience you primal

But
It's not about
What
I want
Sir
10/26/2014 10:25:41 AM

When my submissive goes deep

We all deserve respect. Inside we can all be delicate, no matter how strong. Believe me, I do not like to admit I am weak or soft, but it's not that. I am capable of great love and nurturing. When you know me, really know me, you will know my love and my nurturing nature. This is not conceit. This is fact.

We all deserve to be accepted for who we really are, and believed for the words we say. If I have great trust I can submit to one I choose to.
If I love them all the better. I'm only speaking for myself: I'm not even sure I can separate love of some kind, with this life, and with these acts.

I feel grateful for my journey, the levels of submission I have explored and reached; and the love I have found along the way.

When I have been deep, I felt like I was flying high, floating, relaxed, serene, and could feel no pain. To have given myself this way is freeing, but more than that, it is a place of acceptance and joy within my submission.

I'm a bit stubborn and I try to take what is given to me. I have never used a safe word. I never needed to nor wanted to. I doubt I would have, because I think I can take it. That is not a challenge, and it doesn't mean I won't cry out. Luckily, I have only been involved with those I trust.
I know they would never intentionally hurt me, though they have pummeled me with their pain presents: wrapped up in bows of lust and potential release.

I never thought I was into pain. Mostly I still don't. I enjoy it a good deal more than I ever thought I could. I find I crave it. I want His power reigning down on me and in me. I accept that I want them, but it seems dark to want these things. I'm not judging it, but saying that makes me think about how I have always been dark, even as a child; but more in the morbid sense. Pain strikes at the core. To take and accept the pain requires vulnerability. Pain unleashes something animal in the giver and the receiver.

Pain used to scare me. It still does, but it also fascinates me. I want to be challenged. I want to be taken to the edge of what I can endure. I want that done with love, but I also want it primal.

I submit myself. I want to be commanded and dominated. It feels so right to me and it turns me on. I will kneel before Him, laying myself out for His desires. He will lead and I will follow. I look forward to continuing my journey Wherever He may choose to take me.
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