Hello,

i seek a monogamous, full-time, real-time relationship with a Dominant woman who is smart, creative, and both caring and strict. i am not a sissy, and i certainly know how to take charge when necessary (for instance, in my work, which is teaching), but my demeanor tends to be submissive. in relationships, i am more comfortable as a follower than as a leader; thus, my search for a woman who takes charge in a relationship. even more than this, i love a woman who is willing to provide structure, who assigns me tasks or who regularly tests my obedience.

i am still single, 40 (but have looked young for my age most of my life, and i still do), 6'0", 200, not sculpted but not out of shape either. i am fairly highbrow, loving reading and classical music; but i don't think i'm a snob: for instance, the family guy is probably my favorite tv show.

the lowercase typing is meant as a simple, slightly playful sign of submission. if it annoys you, Ma'am, please tell me and i will not do it again:)