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I identify as a switch to my very core, in what I consider to be the purest sense. What I mean is this: I'm wired to give pleasure, and the approach I take in a given scene or sexual encounter depends almost entirely on what I feel will foster the deepest connection and provide the most pleasure to my partner. While I'm honest enough to admit that looks matter to me, they aren't enough to hold my interest. If a prospective partner either can't or won't stimulate my mind, she won't be stimulating my body. Passion for a cause, intellectual pursuits, personality, sense of humor, ability to think independently, compassion, sense of social justice... Any combo thereof can suffice.