"D/s is a two way street. It is not just about satisfying the desires of one person, but rather finding a balance between the two. Of course the Dominant will be in control and able to dictate what he does and not want his submissives to be like, he can have an honest opinion. It is after all, a power exchange. HOWEVER, as human beings we are all different. And the Dominant needs to understand that he cannot force people into a rigid mold. The world doesn't work that way. In order for him to receive what he wants, he must also be prepared to listen and understand the needs, wants, and desires of his submissive. " |