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dewdrop04

I want a Dom who is at least willing to do some of the things I am interested in, which to most Doms aren't too severe. I'm into rape play, breath play and the whole kidnapping idea. I'm not too into pain but I can handle a little. In the bedroom I want a Dominant who ties me up and uses me for himself. My hard limits are too much anal (yes that's a real thing haha), cum above my neck (that might change for a very long term relationship), guys that are reeeeally into pain and severe humiliation (I'd like to keep whats left of my mind in good condition lol), and I am never Dominant I just can't handle it. Also, guys seem to have a thing for girl on girl. Take note that I am interested in girls, but I am not interested in being with my Dom and another female unless I have built a great bond in both relationships. Outside of the bedroom I want a Dom who is protective; one that is both rewarding and strict when it comes to discipline. I need a good structure, someone who is willing to teach me, guide me, and take care of me emotionally and physically so that I can provide my whole self to him. I don't mind the idea of staying at home, cooking and cleaning for my Dom. I want to take care of him, but its a two way street that most "Doms" don't seem to understand. I like to go camping and fishing, I go with family every summer. Family is important to me. I like to read and I love listening to music. I like partying, dancing, hanging out with friends, shopping, all of the normal things a girl my age would do. I want a relationship with my Dom to appear vanilla to the outside world, but as soon as we're alone things should change. Also, in public situations I do want my Dom to take the lead in most things but I am very opinionated and I will state my opinion. I'm always eager to please someone I care about.
3/14/2013 5:40:43 PM

"D/s is a two way street. It is not just about satisfying the desires of one person, but rather finding a balance between the two. Of course the Dominant will be in control and able to dictate what he does and not want his submissives to be like, he can have an honest opinion. It is after all, a power exchange. HOWEVER, as human beings we are all different. And the Dominant needs to understand that he cannot force people into a rigid mold. The world doesn't work that way. In order for him to receive what he wants, he must also be prepared to listen and understand the needs, wants, and desires of his submissive. "