Tired of games, liars, players, if your any of those, please pass me by, it doesnt take long and I can see right thru you. I always give someone enough rope and they will hang themselves. Respect is number one in my book, if you dont respect yourself, how can you respect anyone else. Communication, trust, honesty are at the top of the list also.. I have not experienced this lifestyle before. Have been married twice, both abusive, I have no children. I have been in the medical field for about 30 yrs. I am a BBW, if you dont like big women, then just pass me by. I am looking for an old fashion love with just a hint of spice, and if you cant deal with that,,,dont let the door hit ya