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dcIronman

My situation for the past 5+ years has finally settled into a long-term future that involves a split-life. During the week, I live in the heart of DC, in a private DC apartment that I would be delighted to share with a woman who wants to move-in for a healthy stability coupled with my being Dom or Master. Twice already this has worked positively and for LTRs, with continuing friendship afterward.

My work has me traveling often, and I am glad to have a partner-in-crime to share these trips mainly within the U.S. but also abroad.

Just to avoid misunderstandings, the "split" in my life has me heading to the suburbs on the weekends, to stay married in name (for the kids, as the aftermath to a train wreck of an attempted divorce). For reasons that I consider unavoidable, I am staying with this arrangement for the next several years.

Nevertheless, what is best about me comes through in my DC life and travels, and that is what I want to share with the right woman. My nature is indeed dominant, and that leads to my kink -- enjoying control ... mostly to tantalize. My instincts go further, because I enjoy the emotional and intellectual closeness of a relationship. I am not into pain or degradation. Nor do I need to be a Dom to enjoy an intimate relationship.
In the vanilla world... my days involve corporate law, technology, and teaching in a law school. These make me well-suited to being a mentor, and more! A healthy mix of real-time and cyber mix well for me.

And one more thing: my lifestyle is extremely healthy (disease and drug free; intense daily exercise).