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dachastesub

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dachastesub - Male Submissive, houston Texas | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About dachastesub

This is newly amended profile.
I YOU ARE A PERSON WHO RECENTLY WROTE TO ME AND I HAVE NOT RESPONDED, PLEASE TRY AGAIN, AM HAVING TROUBLE SENDING MESSAGES. Please look a my journall to better understand why I have not responded to your recent attempt to reach out to me concerning your in recent expression of some interest in me after your long silence.

I am well educated and have made a lifetime of professional work, now retired. i have the means to support myself and to travel, all in modest lifestyle. I seek LTR with a woman who is interested in being THE LEADER IN OUR LIVES.. I think that things like chastity reinforce and support a state of submissiveness and encourage obedience to the direction and requirements of a dominant woman. I seek DIRECTION in my service to a mistress that is definitive, clearly communicated, and expressed in terms of command. I am not a masochist, but expect punishment for failure to obey. I am a pretty good cook. I will maintain a household. I am presentable in polite company and well behaved in public and private. My strong preference is to winter in modest climates. i prefer to avoid politics and causes and crusades. I much prefer to lead a private life with friends. I do enjoy travel and meeting new people and learning new things. i dont use controlled substances(dope) unless occasional prescribed meds as for dental work or the like.

I do enjoy irregular use of alcohol in modest amount. I dont use or easily tolerate tobacco smoke. i am interested in and willing to learn or be trained in kink beyond my limited experience. Please allow me to emphasize that my interest is in RELATIONSHIP and service, and any specific activity or exercise in kink is secondary to relationship and to service to a woman who might favor me with HER LADERSHIP in life.
IT HAS BEEEN MANY MANY MONTHS SINCE MY ACCOUNT WAS "SUPENDED", OR WHAT EVER THIS SITE"S CALLS IT WHEN SOMEONE MAKES A MISTAKE WHEN HE WRITES SOMETHING HERE THAT IS WRONG SOME HOW. I DO NOT REMEMBER WHAT I DID WRONG MANY MANY MONTHS AG0 TO GET MYSELF SUSPENDED. I AM VERY INTERESTED IN BEING "REISTATED" OR WHATEVER THE CORRECT TERM MIGHT BE TO GT MY ACCONT HERE REACTIVATED, SO I CAN CONTACT OTHERS HERE. I ASK THAT _WHOM SOEVER HAS THE POWER TO DO SO REINSTATE MAY ACCOUNT SO AS TO ALLOW ME TO MESSAGE OTHERS,PLEASE!

Well, SOMETHING WENT WRONG WITH MY MESSAGING ON  COLLARSPACE FOR ME:  I GOT SUSPENDED, CUT OFF FOR SOME REASON UNSECIFIED (A SUGGESTION OF VIOLATION OF SOME UNSPECIFIED RULE).  Now I have been here qute some time , a few years, and never blocked before.  Cant figure why or why actually, just general statement about "violation of terms of use",  but no specifics..  I guess all I can do is wait to see what management of Collarspace says, if and when they say anything to me.  So, if you are in correspondence with me or desire to be, try to send message if you wish, Dont know it they will let me get to it.

 

With Respect and appreciation :

 

dachastesub

 

This is, I think, my first Journal Entry.

I have written responses to several profiles posted by women on this site.  I have never included a "laundry list of activities", but rather simply presented myself as a submissive male in search of LTR with a lady who desires to take the lead in a relationship.

I have had little luck with this approach, having actually met 2 women, one of which judged me too old (76 then) and still under 80 now. 

I have read many profiles posted by dominant women here, not a few of which express frustration about subs "who want to top from the bottom" and a like number who seem to not like for sub men to say what they  want in the way of activities.  At the same time some women have an exhaustive "laundry list" of actiities in which they are interested,

Recently, I responded to such a profile and before doing so, I printed a 3 or 4 page laundry list of activites from the lady's laundry list.  I responded by giving information about my knowledge, inteest, experience, like or dislike, or opinion of each item on the list.  Because CS system doesnt seem to like really long responses to profiles, I broke it down in 4 or 5 diffeent messages.  To my surprise, the lady read them all, whch is the opposite of my experience with most of my other responses.  She sent me a not telling me she liked the  detailed responses to her laundry list, even thanked me for it.  Of coursel I was rejected, but it was better than beilng ignored.

So, tell me please, ladies, do you really want such detailed responses to you profiles on the first contact?  Or, is the problem more about being between 76 and 80, is just too old to begin with??

with respect,

dachastesub

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